I dont get it?????

Question

there are these two dudes. one is really nice, and the other, well i havent really talked to. the first guy talks to me non stop. and we get along and everything. but hes weird! in a good way kinda. the second dude gives me the stop time looks in the hall way. one time i went down to the wood shop to get a peice of wood, and when i was talking to the teacher, he came up to ask the teacher a question and our eyes met...how do you describ that. but the other dude and i are really good friends and its like im the oddball girl and hes the oddball dude. some how we're ok wid eachother. but like one day i decide to be crushing on the cute guy then the next day i think i like the other dude. so which one do i really like? And no "your not old enough to have a realtionship, go do your home work or something." ITS DONE AND I HAVE NOTHING ELSE TO DO I TIERED OF YOU PEOPLE GIVING ME THOSE DUMB ANSWERS SO DON'T JUST SAY SOMETHING ONLY TO GET 2 POINTS!!!!!!! am i clear!

Answer 1

Yes Ma'am... Clear as Crystal.

This is a predicament that doesn't get any easier with age.

Its something that 9 people out of 10 will face in the dating game. What's funny is that, initially, people will always choose the person they're most physically attracted to, it's the nature of the beast, the humans wanting their instant gratification, I can guarantee you that even now you're thinking of the guy who stops time for you.

What you don't realise is that perhaps going out with the 'hottie' will be one of the most unsatisfying relationships you could possibly have, because it is based purely on two people who know nothing of each other aside from the fact that they 'look perty'

how do I know this?... my last girlfriend looked like Natalie Portman, the absolute spitting image, but with blonde hair.. I was extremely attracted to her, and she was to me... but I found her to be boring as bat-sh*t.. herproblem was she was very pretty... and didn't she know it.. she knew it so well in fact that she spent so much time on her appearance that she had ZERO people skills, couldn't hold a conversation to save her life, nor could she even have much of a social life because very few people liked her because of how she communicates with people.

So, I started dating the other girl in the equation.... my best friend for years... the 'other wierdo' (sound familiar?).. the woman who I should have chose first. I got lucky, she waited for me, if she had to wait another month, another week, hell, another minute longer and it may have been a different story. and I would be telling you a story about how I lost 2 beautiful people that day.

She and I are now engaged to be married this year, we've been together for 6 years now, we have 2 beautiful kids and it's still fun and exciting, because we never tire of each others company.

Physical attraction is fleeting.. and while you're young you can get away with it.... but think about what you want... do you want something that will last... or do you want something that will do for now...

I think I've earned my 2 points now....

I hope this helps you.