wht should i talk to him abt, i don't want to give any clues that i love him and how do i find out if he loves me or not! help me out! plz! THANKS!
2007-01-23 13:35:52 · 7 answers · asked by swli12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like me and my boyfriend. except it was the other way around. He "claims" he liked me all those years ago, but I wasn't looking for anything serious, i just thought he was cute. but hey, a good thing is that we've been going strong since 2003.
anyway, we were childhood friends. the only thing I remember doing with him is that he and another boy locked me in the bathroom trying to make me do that bloody mary thing in the mirror. I was smart enough to turn of the light from the inside. I moved from there about an hour away and we met up about 10 yrs later at his auntie's housewarming. Every night on the phone we just talked about anything! Anything that came to mind. whats your favorite color? food? whats there weirdest thing you've done as a kid? funniest? did you ever steal something?
if its not too awkward, ask about past relationships (if any.) its not bad to slip in a hint or two. show him what you'd do in a possible relation with a guy like him. don't tell him you love him in the beginning. one you might scare him away or two that time you've been apart he might've found someone else and you're just friend. (I know i'm being negative but I gotta keep it real. this aint a movie you know.) give it some time, get to know him more and it'll just all fit in.
2007-01-23 13:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by ** i Am hiS giRL ** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult question to answer but if I were in urt place i would of started talking about our childhood memories. On the way u can collect clues if he likes u back or not. U just have to stay colm and don't act nervous. be urself and don't act like the person u r not> U have to go slowly and make him relize that u like?love him on the way. Don't get him scared and don't let him be in a really uncomfortble position when he is with u. U have to make him love u!
2007-01-23 21:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best topic is about your childhood days. If you could still recall the exciting adventures you did together. This is the best way to start conversation. You could also tell him about your mutual friends. Finding if he loves you will come in time, no need to hurry because impatience may cause pressure on him or in you. Relax, be honest and stay the way you are.
2007-01-23 22:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by guidiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him about what he's been up to for the last 10 years.
im sure if you sort of hinted that you are interested in what he does, what hes interested in....all that stuff
after you talk about general stuff..i dont think it would be akward at all because he would feel you're just asking out of curiosity.
that way...you will find out if he loves you also or not....but if you have loved him for that long...im sure everything will work out
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-23 21:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by Brown man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u love him so much u shuld let him no how much u love him and u shuld get some1 2 ask him if he like or ask him urself ask him out if he is single if u love him. u shuld keep love a secret i bet he is wonderin the same thing about u if u love him and i bet he wants to find out some how to just tell him
2007-01-23 21:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by soccer playa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start out by finding out if you both have things in common.
and go from there. let nature take it's course. you may find out that his feelings may be the same as yours.
2007-01-23 21:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no problem try to know does he loves you, it is more important if he loves you too and go for it.
2007-01-23 23:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by Rajesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋