OR MAYBE SHOULD I JUST MOVE.. AND GIVE UP THIS HOUSE TO THEM???
i just confused how to ask my parent to move to the other house without make them so broken heart with me? i am 28 years oldd, i have husband and two sons.. i just feel not to comfortable anymore to live with my parent, esspecially with my mother..
we always have argue and fight.. so it just make me more depress (esspecially i don't have job right now).. i have huge problem and i never tell them anything but when they have problem, she just keep irritating me and follow me all the time..her behaviour just make me crazy... i just don't know how to tell them to leave or move to the other place/house..
2007-01-23 13:29:54 · 10 answers · asked by sylvaniaS 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell your parenst you're a grown woman and you need space
2007-01-23 13:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well in the first place can your parents afford to live elsewhere? If they can then you need to sit them down and tell them this arrangement just going to work anymore. Have a classifieds ready to help them find another place. On the other hand if they can't afford live somewhere else you can't just send them packing to live under a bridge. You'll have to set boundaries with your mother about annoying you. Just tell her the things thats driving you crazy. Tell you love her and want things to change. So you can have peace.
2007-01-24 11:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by biker_babe_goldie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good situation for you or your children if there is constant friction. You need to talk to your Mom and let her know that you need your family to have their own space and the parents need to have their own (separate) space, too.
The suggestion of circling apartments is good. Do offer to help them find another place to live - something more "suitable" for ALL of you. Definitely give them a timeline to be out by and offer to help them pack and move. Be strong and firm as it probably won't be easy, but it will definitely be worth it.
You should not have to move. It is your home.
2007-01-24 11:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur parents have anopther house then it is easy! U just tell them
"I am sorry but I have to talkt to u about something! Well, a loat has been happening and I guess I just need more space in my house to feel more comfortable. It is just that I am so stressed and I have to be more comfortable in my house, but you will still
be my parents no matter what and plus I will visit u as offen as I can!:)" but if they have no other place to go, there is no nice way to say it exept if u offered them a place to live in!
2007-01-23 21:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jane 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It will be difficult but you need to do it for you and, especially for the children. It is not good for them to be exposed to the friction. They take it in and undoubtedly take blame for it on their own shoulders. So, give you parents a date by which they much leave. If they don't, have the locks changed and do not give them a key. There is no "nice" or "easy" way. Say it as gently and firmly as you can. Your children's future is at stake.
2007-01-23 21:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! the same thing happened to me to except it was with my grandma! if your mom is annoying you then she's probably annoying your kids too so think of them and grit your teeth and ask them to mve out! when my dad FINALLY stepped up and told my grandma that she had to move and that we would find her someplace to live it was such a HUGE relief! for a couple of days you feel sooooooooo guilty but then you realize how restricted you felt with her watching you ALL the time!
2007-01-23 22:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by go go gadget 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to calmly have a FAMILY discussion about the problem with a timeline for when to meet again and discussion the next steps if changes are not made.
2007-01-23 21:41:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
circle the apt. for rent ads and serve them to her with her breakfast. Seriously, just be honest, tell them that this living arrangement no longer works, set a specified time for them to move and help her pack!!!!
2007-01-24 10:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Angela C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just lay down the law and tell them what you want. It is your house.
2007-01-23 22:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and just tell her.
2007-01-23 22:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by roast_breadfruit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋