So she calls me up and say's it's OVER. So I'm like..WHY, and then she say's some crap about not be a good listener
or something or other, then I say why don't you give it some time..and then she say's NOPE. So I was trying to be real nice and crap...and I say, can you fix me up with your friend Angela (who is very hot, btw) and she get really mad...so I say...YOU just broke up with me...in other words we are done, so I'm free...right???
This is very hard because this was a very deep feeling relationship, we've dated now for 5 weeks (almost 6).
I just don't understand why they do this to me.
Any suggestions?????
2007-01-23 13:26:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you sound like you're young, so you'll probably be perplexed by women for many years to come.
Many women expect men to be mind readers, so in her mind it's your own fault you didn't figure out you're a good listeners. As to why she dumped you, only she'll ever know so don't beat yourself up over it.
Although there were probably some intense feelings, it was only a few weeks and you're obviously ready to move on since you tried to get her to hook you up with Angela. BTW, that was a mistake. Maybe you could have asked Angela out if you hadn't done that, but your ex is probably going to tell Angela now and you've probably killed your chances with her. But since you've already stuck your foot in your mouth, I guess you might as well try to ask Angela out yourself since the worst thing she can do is say no.
So for future reference, don't ask your ex to hook you up with one of her friends, no matter how hot she is. You are free to date.
2007-01-23 13:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could apologize. But, if a girl breaks up with over the phone she isn't the one. I know 6 weeks seems like alot of invested time; you'll find someone new. though your come back of asking her to hook up with her friend. OUCH!! Move on buddy. You can do better. Just date around nothing serious until you gain that "listening" thing. Right, like guys ever listen.
2007-01-23 21:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine23511 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 13 or 14? Let yourself grow up for about another 6-8 years, then try the relationship thing.
2007-01-23 21:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by mihalicmj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all u shuld act like u dont give a sh*t about her by askin rigth wen she dumped u if she culd hook u up wit her friend. and she shuld hav atleast had someone tell u y she dumped u or she shuld hav told u herself and if u hav deep feelings fo rher then u shuld give up untill all sign point to she hates u. tell her how much u love her and try to find out y she dumped u if they were stupid reasons liek u dont listen well mayb u shuld try to b a better listener and dont start actin liek u hate her or u dont care about her cuz that never works if u still love her u shuld still b nice
2007-01-23 21:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by soccer playa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its exactly what ive been saying, love doesnt exist, people just say they love someone because they want someone that they can call there own, but then a month down the road they say its over, because they never loved you in the first place, im srry to tell you this, women and men never love anyone, its all a lie...
2007-01-23 21:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by 88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it is just not the one that´s for you. it might be very hard for you honey, but be patient. one day you will find your girl and you will feel like the luckiest man in the whole world. be nice to her, dont get mad. ok? you will get over it. I am sorry for you but keep looking for another BEAUTIFUL girl and make her love you, you will feel real lucky
2007-01-23 21:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was testing you and wanted to see how much you fought for her. (wrong, but some immature females will do this). Unfortunately, the b/f thing gave you a failing grade. :-( Did you just say that to save face? What were you thinking silly?
2007-01-23 21:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got dumped 2, and I was like worlds best girlfriend. It's not fair, and love sucks. Nobody wants to be sweet, and if they do it doesn't last long, ahhhh.....I will never find love. :(...
2007-01-23 21:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hi! I just thought I drop by and say good luck.
2007-01-23 21:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With what you just said. I couldn't blame her! Re-read what you just wrote and you'll answer your own questions.
2007-01-23 21:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋