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i need help plz answer.

2007-01-23 13:17:07 · 30 answers · asked by max 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Sometimes the direct approach is best - just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs.
Behavior
Instructions
•STEP 1: Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question. Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
•STEP 2: Is this person "accidentally" running into you in places where he or she knows you will be, such as at your desk? At the Laundromat on Tuesdays? At your brother's birthday party?
•STEP 3: Make a note if he or she mentions future plans to spend time with you: "That band is coming to town soon. We should really get tickets."
•STEP 4: Spend time alone together. Canceling other plans in order to be with you longer, or not finding excuses to leave, could be a sign of interest.
•STEP 5: Has he or she been calling for random reasons, such as, "I was wondering if you knew what that pizza place down the street is called," followed by, "Are you hungry?"
•STEP 6: Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something - and it's probably not your stamp collection.
•STEP 7: Observe how the person acts around your friends - he or she might be extra friendly to your closest pals for a reason.
Body Language
Instructions
•STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you?
•STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same.
•STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction.
•STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek?
•STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms.
•STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?

2007-01-23 13:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Christine 3 · 1 3

Me and you have the same problem. I am pretty sure, from my own experience, that you probably, deep inside, have a FAIRLY good feeling that she wouldn't mind talking to you but you are just afraid to go say anything to her.

I mean, the signs are if she looks at you, smiles at you, or tries to not look at you at all. If she is obviously not meeting your glance (sometimes you'll walk past her and she'll just blankly look away) it probably means she feels some attraction but is too shy herself to let you know by making eye contact.

Basically, if you're in a library and there is that girl you like, and suddenly, she starts looking away from you as if you have Medusa's head sitting on your shoulders, that is an obvious sign she likes you but is shy. Otherwise, why would she avoid you? I mean, even if you were hideously ugly, which I am sure you are not, why would she completely avoid looking your way? She is shy but is attracted.

2007-01-23 13:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't know how old you are, but I think the answer is probably the same regardless of your age. Basically, if a girl, or woman (if you are older) pays attention to you, she probably likes you.

Does she ask you questions about yourself or your interests? Does she compliment you? Does she touch you, even if it is casually? These are all signs that she might like you.

Also, does she just "happen" to show up at places where you regularly go? Does she call you "just to talk"? Or does she call to ask you a question that she probably could have figured out by herself? (Like a question about homework?) These are also pretty positive signs that she likes you.

But really, the only way you can know for sure if she likes you is to ask her. (Or ask her out if your're old enough)

Good luck with your girl!!!

2007-01-23 13:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 3 · 0 0

Hmm..it depends, do you have any more details? Details would help. But usually we'll try to come up with ways to be around you if we feel comfortable talking to you, or run in the other direction if we don't :P But that also depends on wether you are friends or not...there are a lot a factors that are going to be specific to your situation. :)

2007-01-23 13:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly H 2 · 1 0

Ask her, have a friend ask her. But if you dont tell her first then to you/your friend she might just say no because she doesnt want to embarrass herself because she might not know if you like her back.

Start to hang out with her and she will get to know you better.

2007-01-23 16:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well a girl can tell if a guy likes her by:
if they make her laugh on purpose
if they stare at her
if they ask her
if they seem to act more friendly than usual
if they often look her way
if they smile when she is around
if they always areblushing if she looks at them in the eye

best of luck
hales

2007-01-23 13:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by littlemissflamer 3 · 1 1

If a girl likes you she'll flirt with you and laugh at your jokes. She'll hit you in a playful way and tease you. She'll try to look good and smile alot. She'll try to be your friend :D

2007-01-23 13:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by pinkpolkadott0 2 · 0 0

Well, if she is shy, then she might just smile at you sometimes, try and make eye contact with you, or just sort of stare at you. If she is more outgoing, she might just say so, or she'll probably be pretty flirty with you. She might also try to impress you.

2007-01-23 13:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

just walk up to her and say hello and see what her reaction is.

please give mathimanc the 10 points. man does he needs a life

2007-01-23 13:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by native 3 · 0 0

just ask to invite she outgoing on weekend and you need to make sure she like you, because you will told she , you like her ( why a man let a girl say that?)

2007-01-23 13:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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