I'm in love with my friends older brother. Sometimes when my friend isn't around her older brother and I still talk, and hang out. Should i tell him how i feel, or make the first move? if so what should i do?
2007-01-23 12:23:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, tell your friend in case her feelings are hurt. Tell her you are interested in her brother and does not want it to be hard on her and would mostly like her to accept you. You are better off telling your friend then to be with her brother at her back. I hope you get her fully support. Then, you should get to know him better by going out or so. Ask him out or walk you home. Dont be rushing it and telling him you love him in case things dont work out there are no hard feelings. Remember not to spread so much details to your friend but still assure her you are still her friend and spare her some details or else she feel like an outcast and she would then be against the idea that you are "dating" her brother. We girls are sensitive. Keep it real. Wish you the best.
2007-01-23 12:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend first and see how she feels. make sure your friend knows either way that u would lik her opinon and things wont change that much between u. I think u should also tell the guy u like him, val day is coming up. send a card!
2007-01-23 12:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by linda78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask my friend 1st if she would mind only because friends normally last longer than the boyfriend. Then if she does not mind make the move. But know that alot of the things you and him may do just might get back to your friend
2007-01-23 12:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend about your feelings and if they are ok with it or not , you should make a move if you think they like you back......dont let your friend control the way you feel but dont ruin your friendship on what may be puppylove....
2007-01-23 12:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by madimadimarisol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i would talk to your friend to see if she is OK with u going out with her older bro. if she is then go to him and tell him how you feel first i think that would be the best. best of luck
2007-01-23 12:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kaylee Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to find out if he feels the same! You can ask your friend or just be straight forward with him and flat out ask him. Then if you know he likes you go for it!! Do what you have to for him to notice you and maybe he'll ask you out or something along those lines! Good Luck!!
2007-01-23 12:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by cute_chica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl first you need to tell your friend that you like there brother!!!! You are a girl with needs and you need to tell your friend that you what there brothers junk.
2007-01-23 12:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by orgasim1899 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends come first. so, tell ur friends about how u feel with her brother. if she's getting mad, tell her you will leave her brother, and you must. guys must not come over friends!
2007-01-23 12:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oky,frist of all you need to talk to him just to let him know how you feel about him.he will never know if you dont tell him.but to know i know your thinking that???is he thinking about me as well im thinking about him??? but i know you like him and all but gril you need to make your move until some other gril get that...but when you talk to him be your self and olny your self.be real to him and your self.tell him how you really feel.
2007-01-23 12:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep getting close 2 him then after a wile tell him how u feel...
2007-01-23 12:36:55 · answer #10 · answered by alexis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋