She views it as I work late at times and the weekends as well and she wants every moment together with me. However, we lay in bed together, watch tv together, eat dinner together, and sometimes I even swing by her office for a bit to hang out with her throughout the days. I just don't get it!
2007-01-23 12:18:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just shower with her dude, before someone else does.
2007-01-23 12:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by Bam Bam M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have talked to her about it and she gets hurt by what u say, then there's a problem here. because u need your space, i feel it in your words. and i understand where u both stand because i have been like that with my ex and i understand now where he was coming from. it sounds like she needs to have hobbies, and have friends because her whole life seems to be based on you. this is really something u need to confront with her. the only thing u can do is talk to her, and try to work this out somehow. something that i craved for too from my ex was i would ask him to have just 1 day of the week for only us. no work, no nothing. so we went to take a stroll, we went to dinner at night and we talked alot. it felt good. try compromising with her-tell her u can do the 1 time a week for only us thing. it's a good start.
2007-01-23 12:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by gracy808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She enjoys being with you and wants to spend as much time with you then take it. Enjoy it!!Do you guys just shower or have some fun in the shower? Cuz if you just shower than make it interesting next time. You can do something like hold her in the shower and just take it from there ;-)!! If you guys do that then why you complaining? lol Good Luck with that!!
2007-01-23 12:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by cute_chica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest, and tell her that you like taking showers alone. Maybe tell her it's nice if she sneaks in one in a while, but not daily. If she loves you and you're to be married for any amount of time, things like that have to be discussed.
2007-01-23 12:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, um, sounds like she's a little emotionally dependent. Tell her that you spend every free moment you have with her (as it sounds like you do) and that you need to be able to do personal hygiene things in private...like showering.
2007-01-23 12:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time call me and I will stand in for you. That will put a stop to it for sure!
2007-01-23 12:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by PartyTime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would treasure every moment i had with her because you never know what tomorrow brings and this might be the last moment with her
2007-01-23 12:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe...that's really sweet of her.Maybe she wants to have shower with u coz..uhhh...she knows that u would never rub the dirt off your body is she aint around?:D...lol..life is beautiful...isnt it?
2007-01-23 12:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur gurlll needs sum action... Althoo ... uu doo seem to spend a lot toghet! if it bugs you tell her .. if not then forget this.
best of luck. my wishes to you
2007-01-23 12:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not washing your butt properly and she hasn't the heart to tell you, so she just does it for you.
2007-01-23 12:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by steve.c_50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋