the guy i love very deeply he lives in another state he's married too but is not happy right now this guy means the world to me any help will help thanks.
2007-01-23 12:05:34 · 6 answers · asked by midnight_star_chaser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you don't care about your significant other, then why don't you divorce him? If its over, its over. If the guy you love actually loves you back then he will do the same. Talk with him. Do your part and free yourself. Hope he does the same. Just be careful not to be strung along.
2007-01-23 12:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by hrld_sleeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what it is you really want. Is this a case of "the grass is greener on the other side"? You obviously understand there are consequences, so you need to seriously consider them. No one wants a marriage to end, but if you are in love with someone else, perhaps it isn't meant to be. Whatever you do, don't make your decision based on this other guy. You may need to leave your husband because he's not right for you, but know that even though this other guy says he's unhappy, he might not be strong enough to leave or he might actually love his wife more than he loves you. So, if you leave you might be alone, but it's better than being with someone you no longer love.
2007-01-23 20:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, see the thing is....Your Married!!!! If the guy means that much to you, leave your husband - have a break before committing to another relationship cause otherwise you'll be on your second divorce. The guy you like is Married Too! for goodness sake, you took a vow with your husband, and he did with his wife. GET DIVORCED then pursue the relationship cause then it can be based on honesty not adultery. *No disrespect*
2007-01-23 20:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by kelstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jumping out of frying pan and right into the fire everything might seem all hon-key doorey now until u are finally free of your excess baggage, and then u realized all along u were just lusting at each other ,the human in ALL of us always want what we think we cant have the forbidden fruit.
2007-01-23 20:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and ditch your husband and him his wife and watch your fantasy dream become a disappointing reality. If you are not happy in marriage, be honorable and get out, for his sake and yours.
2007-01-23 20:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by steve.c_50 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
End one relationship before you even think of starting another.
2007-01-23 20:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋