Shes pretty, shes hot, shes shy, shes everything i could ask for. I know she likes me but she has no cell phone and wont give me her house phone because shes not allowed to use it for longer than 5 minutes. Shes never online, shes not allowed to have myspace, and shes always in a hurry to get home after school and says shes not allowed to make plans she has to go straight home and study. WHAT THE HELL CAN I DO I LIKE HER SO MUCH!!!
2007-01-23 11:32:44 · 24 answers · asked by rah d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like she has parents that have raised her in a disciplined manner. You may disagree with her way of life, but she will probably turn out to be a great woman one day. There is nothing wrong with these restrictions she is under, as our abnormal world considers these normal parental controls to be awry.
Perhaps you could take a lesson from her family, and along the way you should try to get to know her within the bounds set up by her parents, if she means that much to you.
2007-01-23 11:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by bscoms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she likes you? Are you sure it's not all an excuse? My father was really strict with me, but if I liked a boy there was always a way to meet up, even if it was only walking home together. Maybe she does like you but she's just not ready -keep in touch, she may change when she's at college.
I was painfully shy at school and rejected loads of offers because I just couldn't handle it. And yes, later on I was a real wild child to make up for lost time.
Best of luck - the worst thing that can happen is that she'll stay a beautiful innocent memory when you're all old and cynical.
2007-01-23 19:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by Molly F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a pretty crappy situation. But, if you really like this girl, all you can do is the best you can do for now.
Talk to her at school in the halls, write her notes, hang out with her at lunchtime. Maybe she is allowed to go to school functions like basketball games, or maybe the two of you could join an afterschool club? -- Her parents might go for something like that.
Just keep in mind that in a few years (or less) she will have more freedom. And she'll remember how great you were when she didn't. :)
Good luck!
2007-01-23 19:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is a very tricky one. Start up a friendship with her. If you guys become close in school, perhaps she'll invite you over to her house. If you do that then you could win over her family and they will allow her to make plans with you eventually.
The first thing really is to just try to get to know her first. It doesn't matter if she can't make plans, etc. if you don't even know her. And if she grows to like you then she will be able to argue freely within her household for her own rights to go out. Girls can be very persuasive.
Good luck! :)
2007-01-23 19:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! I mean what do you have to loose. Most of the time they say the less time you spend with someone you really love the more you want to be with thtem so when you are those times are extra special. You already said she's everything you ever wanted so don't miss out on the perfect girl for you. Besides if you really like her she will see hat you respect her (and her schedule) DON"T FORGET ABOUT THE WEEKENDS!
2007-01-23 19:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's from a God-nazi household. The lack of socialization always effects these chicks negatively and then they turn into massive sluts in college. Avoid at all costs now, but try to track her down later.
2007-01-23 19:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk her home, or to her bus. be a friend anyway. offer to carry some of her books - go old school on her lol. be a gentleman. maybe yall can study together someday after school. try the school library - she'd be more likely to meet u there than at home or a park somewhere. good luck!!
2007-01-23 19:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truley like her than maybe you should follow the following options, it isn't smart to give up on love. Instead (until her parents get less strict) pass notes in class, and eat lunch with her. That's all you can do for now.
2007-01-23 19:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ellen the Estonian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her at school. there are a lot of girls that are busy all the time, but still can have a social life, give her a chance at having one. Plus if she really likes you back, then she will make time in her busy schedule to see you.
2007-01-23 19:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by hay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same situation myself. Sadly, there's not much you can do unless she somehow finds a way to better manage her time and fit you in. Maybe get her email address and converse through there whenever she gets some free time?
2007-01-23 19:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by qamper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋