OK there is this girl in my school and grade that i really like.She talks to me and all.but when i want to tell her how i feel about her but i just can't do it i really really think about it and all but when it comes to telling her i am trying but the words wont come out.she is always with someone not like bf but with a friend and i dont want them to see me get rejected or even being succesfull.In febuary she will start playing tennis in my clinic but that is in febuary and it is the month of love and other people will be probably asking her.
CAN YOU TELL HOW I CAN FLIRT WITH HER
AND HOW WERE AND WHEN TO ASK HER
2007-01-23 11:31:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-23 11:35:48 · update #1
You should start a conversation even with her friend around. The friend will tell her how interested you are in her. First you should approach her and compliment her....unless you know her very well you shouldn't really go and ask her out immediately. When you're talking never talk about yourself unless she asks. Always ask her questions. The first thing you should always say to her is a compliment. Like everytime you meet say something like your hair looks really nice. The one day invite her and her friends to the movies or ice skating with your friends and then if she accepts and you guys have a great time...ask her if she wants to go see a movie with you...by your self... SIMPLE!!!
2007-01-23 11:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by cookies and cream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile at her. Watch her when she is around but not so others notice. Pick up her books if she drops them. Say hello. Make sure she does not have a boyfriend. Smile at her friends, but not in a flirty way. Show off in front of her. If she is in class ask her for a pen or paper... get her to notice you. If she begins to talk to you compliment her. Girls love this stuff. :) We do. We love when a man is gentle and kind to us. We love when he does not just walk up and go hey baby. lol. Slowly find out where she stands... if you smile at her and she blushes or she turns away embarrassed that is a good sign. If she turns away and acts like you did not smile at her at all and ignores it she is not interested. If she talks about you with her friends that is okay.. dont worry. Make sure that you tell someone that you trust that you are into her a little so that someone backs you up in case anyone asks you about it. School is frustrating, no one really knows what the heck to do because you are just starting out... but flirting is something you HAVE to learn... or else you will never understand the mind of a woman. Once she starts smiling back and talking to you that is when you can see if she really likes you... she will compliment you, she will look at you when you are not watching, she will talk about you to her friends, and she may tease you. Just keep smiling... make her be the one to want you. Then after a while when you feel comfortable you can go ahead and tell her you are going somewhere and ask her if she wants to tag along... starting out as friends is a GREAT way to take the pressure off a girl. We like that because we dont have to get all nervous. If you hit it off when you do something as friends that is when you can try to hold her hand or ask her out to do something just the two of you. This is my advice :) Advice coming from a girl.
2007-01-23 11:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Miz Phoenix 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh boy! Just tell her! the same thing happened to me this passed week, but the guy just told me. I always talked to him, just like your lucky girl there, and i was kool with it. I still talk to him, and we are buds and nuthing is wierd between us. i dont really know if i like him though...ANYWAYS back to your problem... i think you should just tell her how you feel. Write it down if you have to and give it to her, if she likes you as a friend or at all more than a friend, then she will b kool with it and maybe even date u! :) best of luck
2007-01-23 11:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
[awwsupercute] ha ok well ask her to a movie or dinner make her laugh and get her to feel confortable around you
when it comes to the ride home or even when you are dropping her off tell her how you feel a nice way to end a great evening
[let me know how it goes! hope its great!]
2007-01-23 11:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by [undercover dinosaur] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like this girl go to her whenever u have free time and get her to you're self then tell her how u feel
2007-01-23 11:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by *l*y!0r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I CANT REALLY TELL YOU WHAT EXACTLY TO DO BUT JUST BE YOURSELF..... GIRLS DONT LIKE FAKE GUYS. BE CONFIDENT NOT COCKY AND JUST MAKE HER LAUGH... ONCE YOU GET COMFTERABLE ASK HER OUT TO A MOVIE OR TO HANG OUT AFTER SCHOOL AND THINGS WILL PROGRESS FROM THER.
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-23 11:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by Live ♥ Laugh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open the door for her ,but act like you're kidding so she doesn't think you like her so she thinks but doesn't know.And make up some stupid nick name,like Kiki or something.
2007-01-23 11:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy_Duck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend right now asked me out when i asked him the time lol also just be yourself
2007-01-23 11:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Twizzlers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Doesn't work. 2. Doesn't work. And you didn't keep it short.
2016-03-28 23:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pussy. Grow a pair, or some other jerk will be enjoying her tennis outfit. Get it?
2007-01-23 11:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋