Self Defense?

Question

Hey this one big muscular kid at school wants to fight me... because his gf broke up with him and now shes mine... and i tried to talk to him but it dind;t work... so now he wants to beat me up... and hes about 5 inches taller then me and pretty muscular... im pretty strong for my size and relle quick.... dont say run away cause i cant avoid him... and dont say a 9mm pistol cause i dont havge one and i dont have a knife and i also am not wanting to kill him... could u give me some good self defense techiques if he tries to attack me? i need this FAST! im going to die!

Answer 1

nm angel is right, those techniques are the ones that will work. don't bother with karate or tai kwon do or however the helll it's spelled. those are martial #ARTS#, note the key word in that. they are for show and for self-discipline and stuff like that, and even if they did work, it would take way to long to learn, definitely longer than the time between your next confrontation with this guy. I don't care how big you are or how strong you are, a knee to the nuts will put you down or at least distract him long enough to grab his head when he grabs his balls and pull his face into you upward thrusting knee. that will make him think twice before attacking you again. although, if possible, violence should be avoided, talk to him, say " hey man, I don't want any trouble" or
" look I know you are upset, but remember she left you, I did not steal her from you." ok maybe not the last one. tell him to stop loudly,
" STOP, hey man, just calm down, we can talk this out like civilized gentlemen." " HEY, I really don't want a fight." if you can, run away, a lighter person can always out run a heavier person. if you get into this kind of situation, you have three options: 1: stay and fight, wait for him to throw the first punch, dodge it and thrust your palm into his nose, or a knee into his crotch. 2: talk it out, calm him down and reason with him. ask him why he is mad at you, perhaps change the subject and get him distracted. anything you can to keep him from trying to harm you. 3: RUN LIKE HELLL. get away from him as best and fastest as you can. it doesn’t matter if people think you are a coward, your personal safety if more important. go to this web site:http://www.nononsenseselfdefense.com/index.html
read it, learn it, give this guy a chance, he actually has been in a self-defense situation, unlike those morons who teach karate, who have never fought anyone outside of a dojo in their pathetic lives.

if he grabs you and has you close to his face, push you head down and hit him in the face with the top of you head.

if he has you in a headlock and pushing your head into his side, bite down, HARD, on anything you can get your teeth on.
don't use a closed fist, all you will do is piss him off and brake your hand. did you know that there are 27 bones in the human hand? what are the chances of you NOT breaking one or all of them when you put a lot of force into your arm and you hit solid bone? very low. only use a closed fist when punching his side or throat. you know when you play rock, paper, scissors? make a paper, all fingers flat and together, right? this is called a knife hand, if you hit him on the neck, your hand will penetrate his neck muscles and hit the nerves underneath, this will cause a knockout. Use any or all of the above to defend yourself from this big meanie but remember only after negotiations have failed. if you survive the attack and he is on the floor in pain, then good job. but it is not over yet, ask him " do you know why i did that?" make sure he understands that you were under attack and you were just defending yourself. get some witnesses to back you up on that, like a friend or two that saw the whole thing. help him up off the floor and sit him in a chair. be caring and helpful, not hatefull and bragging about it. this will gain the sympithy of the students that witnessed it, and it will make you out as the helpful citizen, not the heartless monster. remember, don't lower yourself to his level, you are the good guy in this.

Answer 2

You are in a real pickle. You need to surround yourself with friends who can pull him off of you if you are jumped. There are also anti-bully laws. You are trying to handle this with your own strength. You need to rely on a higher power. IN this case the higher power is your parents and the LAW. You need to inform the Police, the School Admnistration, and you family.

Because if this jerk hurts you, you could wind up dead, or in a wheelchair. And the same for him.

Now after saying all that, there are a lot of things you can do, if you psych yourself out enough. If you are very confident that you can win a conflict, then you will do much better then if you believe you might loose. convince yourself that you will win.

Next, go to Youtube and type in triangle choke, anaconda choke, arm bar, leg bar, submission holds, headlocks, and getting out of head locks, Once you do that, you will get a lot of Jujitsu artists such as GRACIE, Bas Rutton, and others.

BEAWARE, that you could wind up in prison for hurting this jerk! Do not think that you can just watch the videos and be prepared, you could get seriously hurt or you could suriously hurt the other guy.

You need to inform all the Authorties, becasue if everyone is aware, and you injur him, you will have a better deffense case in the court of law.

WHAT I MEAN IS - if he jumps you and you are under attack then fight him, but STAY AWAY FROM HIM AT ALL COSTS.
Good Luck, I'll pray for you.

Answer 3

all you need here is pure dirty fightin', self defense can't just be told to you, especially if you haven't had any prior Martial Arts training.

Go for a groin shot if he swings at you, that should slow him down, ball up your fist as you duck under his punch or swing, and go straight between the legs to the cherries.

That should drop him to his knees, From there just go for a couple of strikes to the head (punches will work best), while hes hunched over on his jewels; after that you should just be able to walk away, unless he's got some friends with him who'll prob'ly wanna jump in on it too.

but first of all, you really need to let an adult know that this guy's buggin' you.

He's actually actin pretty pathetic worrying about a chick that dumped him, it was her choice to cut him loose and get with you instead; he really just needs to grow some balls and suck it up like a real man and move on with his life.

Answer 4

Let school officials know and alll the friends you can.
Do seek a peacefull way out to this one I know it will not be easy. Do not be scared of the situation, just know that if you have to fight there better be no other way out. If you do end up in a brawl it only hurts for a little while so give him a taste of the Dragon in you and maybe he will not want to continue.

Do not boast, or brag be humble but not fearful do not let anyone push you around.

Answer 5

Your chances for winning are uncertain. Do not fight him. Seek help. There are many risks involved with fighting. If he tries to fight you, don't corner yourself. Defend yourself and try not to attack. Run away as soon as possible.

Tell someone!!!

Risks for fighting:

Prison, AIDS, criminal record, lawsuit, temporary bodily injury, permanent bodily injury, death, emotional damage, personal property damage, and/or friends/family getting hurt.

These things can happen whether you win or lose a fight.

Tell someone. Get a restraining order. Always be prepared to defend yourself in a potential fight where you have no choice.

Answer 6

okay..

quick self defense techniques..

knee to the groin: http://www.hubbardtwppd.org/selfdefense/kneegroin.htm

elbow strike to the face (photo of...): http://www.dcphoto.com/frank_shamrock_elbow_strike.htm

palm heel or hammer fist to the nose: http://www.cse.dmu.ac.uk/~bb/dg/SelfDefence/Strikes/SelfDefenceStrikes.htm

( on the last site, ignore the straight knuckle punch to the face-the guy would break his thumb if striking that way, and back fists should only be attemped by an experienced martial artist, they're easily dodged and countered)

those are 4 good techniques that are best utillized in a defense situation. gross motor movement, easily learned and executed by an amatuer fairly well..

now in a defense situation after the guy goes down you stop the attack and back off, you don't keep kicking him, than it becomes assault since he's no longer a threat..

personally, you should talk to an authority figure and let him/her know the situation that way if it does come to ahead, they already know the situation and know that you tried what you could to avoid the confrontation..

~*good luck*~

Answer 7

Eddy..your not going to die..use the law to get him off your back ..file a complaint...first now if the little piggies don't do something..and the school doesn't as well..then your free to use what ever mean is necessary to make him under stand..do you have a car..are driving yet..most people forget that their car is a weapon ..just run him over..if not..a baseball bat is easy to use..you have to ambush him..this b.s. of a stand off is dumb..use what ever mean you have...hell even a bottle of gasoline and a rag will take care of him..or maybe pay some one to take care of him...

Answer 8

You can start practicing aikido. It doesn't require using any muscles, but more of your hips and the weight of your body. It looks simple to do, but it really isn't that easy.

As an aikido female student of three years, I have practiced with guys who has more weight and muscle than I do. Through aikido practice, a small person can bring down a bigger person down to them or to the floor.

Answer 9

There is nothing that anyone can tell you on line that will make a bit of difference. In fact it would probably make your situation worse because you would stop to think about what you were supposed to do. Just rely on your instincts.

Answer 10

first of all you are not going to die so stop winging-if you think like this you may as well lie down and let him beat the sh*t out of you. in self defence if you are not prepared mentally to take out your attacker you will get creamed regardless of your ability. secondly-how much do you like this girl-enough to take a kicking for her??. there is no way you will learn enough to deal with him on this thread alone so he is best avoided-stay in a crowd make sure there are plenty of people around-make some freinds who are bigger than him and join a reputable boxing/martial arts club. although the poster above says fighting is not always the answer while this is fair comment this is not always the case and sometimes it's never as simple as all that. if he does confront you and there is no escape go for the eyes (use your thumb to gouge at the eyes). carry a small can of perfume spray to aim at the eyes as well. if you find yourself on the ground attack the knees using the heel of your foot or flip right on your back and go for the groin area all the time covering your face/head with your fore-arms for protection. if he grabs you strike the tricep (under the bicep of the grabbing arm) there is a nerve under here and this should encourage him to let go-then kick the groin to deter him further. also clench your fist and strike the bridge of the nose smartly with the edge of your fist this will not only break his nose but will blind him as well. if he grabs you by the lapels to bring his face closer to yours this is a good time to attack the eyes using your thumbs. again these are simple basic techniques that attack the body's weak points-but as i said these are to be used as a last resort if conflict can be avoided then do so...to those posters advising to tell an adult or to "run away"-what if he is cornered by this monkey and has no choice but to fight-i would be interested in knowing what advice you give him then!! please feel free to e-mail me. the posters advising this kid to defend himself using force are entirely correct-sometimes it is not possible to run away. and for "imaninja" an eye gouge is impossible to miss and instant pain can be delivered without causing long term harm to the attacker-i would be interested in knowing your qualifications/training experience.