I left My bf for is friend .... Big mystake ! ... Now I broke up with is friend cuz i reallized i still loved My Ex ... And Not is friend ... Me and my ex are still talking , but i feel so bad after what ive donne ... i dont know how to let him know that ive loved him all along and that i realized how much ive made a BIG MYSTAKE ! .... I Want him back so badly ... I Feel horible ..
2007-01-23 11:29:13 · 12 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You lost your ex bf forever, because of YOUR very poor CHOICE to get involved with his friend.
What do you expect? How ridiculous?
2007-01-23 11:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him what you said here. Just tell him that you missed him and that you're sorry. You feel that you've made this huge mistake and you still love him truely. Don't expect him to take you back with open arms right away. He may either need time to think about it...perhaps a lot of time, or it might just be out of the question for him altogether. If it is the latter, then the best thing to do is learn from your mistakes and you will eventually move on to find someone else. Sometimes when we make mistakes, things don't always turn out for the better for us, especially when we hurt others.
But it's not impossible! Just be very honest and open with him, and don't pester/chase him. Let it be very calm and natural so that he won't automatically be turned off.
Good luck! :)
2007-01-23 11:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I know exactly what your going through. I did the same thing with my ex (now current) I explained that I know I did wrong and I learned from my mistakes. After that he took me back and we're happier than we've ever been. Maybe show him this question and go from there. Explain the things you did to him and ask for forgiveness. Good Luck
2007-01-23 11:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best advice i can give u is to not tell him exactly that u still want him and realized u love him. he's wounded, and it's time u thought about him and not what u want. if u really care about him be gentle, cause the wound is fresh in his heart and his memory. be his friend, apologize, and start from square one. win his trust again, win his heart, win him over. u have work to do. and u will do anything if u really love him.
2007-01-23 11:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by gracy808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know what you mean me and my ex haven't talked in a couple years we have a wonderfulk son togehter and i still to this day lovehim so much i am also afraid to tell because i'm afraid he'll say go to he-- and i can't deal with that so to you i say don't wait years tell him know how you feel and maybe by the grace of god he'll foirgive you as to mew i think i've waited to long it's been almost 8 years and i stilll love him more then ever every night i think about the what if's at least you'll know what top do please don't wait and good luck
2007-01-23 11:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by bunny37_fran 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry to hear of your mistake. Although I would never take you back if you did that to me, he may be different. The best thing to do is to be honest with him. At least you could get it off your chest about how you felt and even if he didnt take you back it would be off your shoulders. Sometimes you have to ask to be forgiven.
2007-01-23 11:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by hrld_sleeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is be honest .. he'd appreciate that more than anything, and for all you know he could be feeling the same way. If you guys still do talk, ask him out for coffee or go somewhere quiet, and just be open and honest. Tell him everything you've said here... I hope everything works out for you because you really do sound sincere to me... talk to him girl!
2007-01-23 11:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should try to talk to him and let him know how you are feeling. That you made a mistake and you really love him. Good Luck!
2007-01-23 11:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by Linda A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him exactly what u just wrote tell him that it took another man to realize that u loved him and that u were making a mistake and that u love him and you want to make things work.
2007-01-23 11:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not going to happen, Hes not going to get back together with you if you left him for his friend.
2007-01-23 11:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by destructive_llama@rogers.com 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋