I basicallly am in love with this one girl at school and its not lust. Everytime i daydream about her and then her boyfriend comes into my daydream and i tell myself i can't be with and i laugh at myself. Well right now im listing to Far Away by nickleback and and almost crying. I have heartaches very often and i just want to be with her. I even had thoughts of suicide. I want the aches in my heart to end. But for somereason i love having that feeling. I talk to her in school sometimes. im 15. For some reason i don't want to get over her i just want to hold her and never let her go. Even though shecan't be mine i want to keep loving but it hurts alot. is this something that a teenager goes through. I think about her every second i wan't to cry but sometimes i can't. It hurts but i don't want to get over her i want to keep loving her. Why do i want to keep loving her when it hurts so much and interfering with my life ??????? Is something Wrong my brain?
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2007-01-23 11:21:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her boyfriend is real they have been together for about 5 months
2007-01-23 11:32:58 · update #1
Hey army guy i want to talk to can i man when im old enough il be in the same situation as you can u plz email me!?!?!?!
2007-01-23 11:49:13 · update #2
Great song...I'm in Iraq and my love is far away in San Jose, Cali...i've been away for far too long, so i ESPECIALLY relate to that song. I think the reason you don't want to let go is because you either want someone to see you suffering and feel sorry for you, or you want her to see your suffering. She's not gonna feel so sorry for you that she drops her b/f. If she drops him its gonna be because she doesnt love him, not because you love her. She may come to you after, but its unlikely.
On another more serious note....Suicide? Straight out of the question, because you have no idea about the girls that you will MISS OUT on, that will care for you...even love you. Oh...and there's the college parties, clubs, spring breaks...NOT havin her is NOT a bad thing. You need to take it day by day and it will pass. A good way to fix that hurt inside is by trying to do something nice for someone else EVERY DAY. Different people, each day, and write down whatever your act of kindness was for that day in a journal. Once you see all these nice things you do, not only will your thoughts of taking your life disappear, but i'll bet another girl will throw herself at you!!
Good luck, lil bro
2007-01-23 11:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Soldier 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey soo i no what u r going through... i am 16 and when my first boyfriend broke up with me(5 months ago) i felt the same way. i couldnt eat i couldn't sleep and i vowed that i would never get over him. i had thoughts wof killing myself..and i spent my 16th brithday balling my eyes out.. lol i no stupid right. but it is something that we all go through even though i dont no if i believe it yet. i cried for probly 3 months everyday and everynight. but it is getting better little by little even though i still cry when i think about him. i lost months of my life because i was sacred to c life without him and there is no way i can get that time back but you have to move forward. the only thing i can tell u is to talk to a friend or a parent about your thoughts and dont do anything to hurt yourself but if i can make it through it then ne1 can i was a complete wreck soo theres hope for u!!!! find a new girl thats the only thing that mite help get completely over it thats what i am trying to do but it is hard....get out and have fun!!!!! hope it helps
2007-01-23 19:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by inlove0305 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong w/ your brain. You'll get over her.I promise. You're only 15 (I'm 16- I have non-adult authority to say this w/o you rolling your eyes at me) and have the rest of your life to fall in love. If she has a boyfriend stay out of it. It's okay to cry- it's a part of breaking up and having your heart broken. Focus on something besides anything to do w/ her. Go out w/ your friends and have fun! You have the rest of your life so make the most of it while you can!!!
You'll find someone out there who will LOVE you unconditionally!
2007-01-23 19:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best solution for you is just to let out your feelings. For example, this is what i would say to her:
Hey, i just needed to let you know that i like you a lot. This has been going on for a while and i can't hide it any longer. I understand that you have a bf now and i don't want to interfere with that...i just wanted to let you know.
I know its cheesy but work with it or something like that. The main point: LET HER KNOW!!
I know the feeling cuz im going through the same thing except with a guy (im a girl)
2007-01-23 19:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well HONESTLY I was thinking that your either obsessed with her or your just plain crazy! AND you actually like the feeling of being hurt like that!! So wait does she REALLY have a boyfriend in real life? Or just in your daydream??? If she doesn't have one in reality then why don't you tell her how you feel about her? Don't even bother killing yourself!!
2007-01-23 19:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋