Hi I'm 21 and a real virgin (no finger, tampon no nothing ever used) and i have 2 questions b4 i get married Feb 3. My 1st question is is it better to get it soft and slow the 1st time, or take it hard and fast all the way? (I am very comfertable with my soon to be husband we have been doing oral on each other)
My 2nd is how many days b4 the honeymoon should i get a Brazilan wax done this is a supprise for him?
2007-01-23 10:39:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-23 11:03:50 · update #1
for the first one!you must get it soft and light or else you will hate sex before you even start having it...as for the second yoou should do it 2 days before but after that dont stop doing it it is much better and healthier that way!
2007-01-23 10:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by katerina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 00:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, if you have been doing "oral" you are NOT a virgin.. being a Virgin is about not having SEX, not the TYPE of sex.. many get this wrong and it is hilarious! You merely have not had penetration..but you are NO virgin according to any church!
Ok, do just what you HAVE been doing, and most important is that YOU as the woman be VERY aroused, and well lubed. Start with the finger, yours or his, and gradually penetrate.. and two fingers etc. At some point it just doesn't "give" anymore..
AT that point, penile penetration would proceed, gradually to the edge of pain.. and THEN full penetration. Stop, relax, and continue intercourse..
Inre the wax, MANY days ahead.. let the irritation etc. subside so you don't have a rash.
2007-01-23 10:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by tony911m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take it as hard and fast all the way the first time. Actually group sex is good to start with as well, might as well break that engine in as quickly as possible. Amazingly that your boyfriend has not slipped in a finger, not playing the "just the tip" game, etc. Is he a virgin as well? Are you rushing into marriage in order to have sex? Just asking because any Mormon that I know (and I certainly am not Mormon) rushed as quickly into marriage to have sex, and it usually ends horribly. Just be realistic about the whole thing, oh and the group thing, you have to try everything at least once in life, live life do not be afraid of it. And in all honesty take the sex how you want, it is not up to anyone on these boards as your body will tell you what is good and what you need more time approaching.
The wax needs to happen 2 - 3 days prior to the orgy, that will ensure that all irritation is hopefully gone.
2007-01-23 11:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take it slow the first time. Nothing rough.
Get your waxing as about a day before the wedding so some of the irritation will go away. Also invest in some irritation treatment just in case you get really irritated.
2007-01-23 10:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by Yomi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. I wonder if you are legit - being a 21 year old virgin is rare enough but having and enjoying mutual oral without ever being fingered seems to me almost impossible.
But I'll answer your Q: after lots of petting and oral to you put your butt on a pillow, raise your knees while spreading your legs with your feet on the bed. Have him enter slowly and high into your vagina so to avoid pushing againstm your hymen so itn will split painlessly when his penis lowers.
As to Brazilian wax job, no opinion.
2007-01-23 10:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What ever feels right for the two of you is what you should do. It is going to hurt either way. Just keep in mind it gets better and you love him. As for the wax you should call a salon first they will know what to tell you.good luck and congratulations. Maybe you should do the wax one other time before so you will know what to expect.
2007-01-23 10:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by anne04char 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soft and slow 1st you might not like it if it's painful to you at first and then you may have negative feelings about sex and that's not good for a marriage.
2nd, get it done2-3 days ahead so that you are not irritated to bad and uncomfortable during the wedding.
2007-01-23 10:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Take is slow and gentle at first if your comfortable then go ahead to slowly go faster and harder.
2. I would get it done 2 days - the day before so it won't be red and bumps. You can get creams and pads to help get rid of the bumps if they're still there. If you get it done more than two days before you may become stubbly.
2007-01-23 10:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Except for the Brazilan, I think you should be discussing the other thing with your fiancee. It's up to him how you get it, ya know? Or do you? Maybe you are really that naive. So, how do you like the oral? I bet you're as sweet as a honey. Mmmmmm, honey!
2007-01-23 10:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋