Okay...my ex bf just told me that he still wanted me!!! She i do want him ...tooo!!! but....i just scared what he will say cause i asked him what he would say if i told him i wanted him what would he say and he told me he didnt know!!! And it's just quite on the phone!! And i dont know if i should make a move or not!! I need to let him know that i want him and that he will not pressure me into having sex with him!!!! What to say do you think i should make a move and get him BACK or what?!
2007-01-23 10:35:45 · 9 answers · asked by Lh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go out with him because you both like eachother. if you wait they might not like you later.
2007-01-23 10:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by daddy f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he told you that he wanted you and then when you said it he said he didnt know?? im kinda confused but if thats right then you really gotta think why you broke up in the first place if you think the problems that made you guys break up wont change then its just gonna be opening up the same wounds and if hes pressuring you to have sex then hes really not the right guy...the worse thing you can do is pressure yourself.
2007-01-23 18:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by chelzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well kinda let my brain descramble for a second. You should make whole sentences. But I think I may know what your saying but I wouldn't get him back or make a move. All he's after is one thing and if he gets it,you might not see him anymore. Well just think of that long pause of silence on the phone. But it's up to you, I wouldn't do it. You need to move on and get someone who will respect your feelings and wishes and treat you right.
2007-01-23 18:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If he loves you, and respects you, he won't pressure you into doing anything that you don't want to. Just be like, "Okay, let's give this another shot...I just hope that you're not going to pressure me into doing anything, because then it's over." You gotta act like you want him, but will drop him at any given time. Keep him guessing. So just go for it!
2007-01-23 18:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you have to look back at why the relationship ended. if it was because yall just couldn't get along or because he wanted to have sex and you didn't. you have to talk to him, face-to-face, if you want a straight answer. ask him to talk one day and lay down the rules [you don't want to be pressured and that kind of thing] and if he doesn't want to follow them, the move on! goodluck with whatever comes of this! :]
2007-01-23 18:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by youmakemesmile :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there, i think that if you trust this guy, then you should get back together. Remember you have to make a move, there mightn't be a second chance again. So go for it if you love him deeply.
Bye bye
Good luck!!!
2007-01-23 18:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ravie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG - you need to re-read your post. Is that in English? I didn't get any of it.
2007-01-23 18:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhh god. Your grammar is KILLING me. "Me and my ex boyfriend"? Ohhh come ON!
2007-01-23 20:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by ~ Lillie ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too unclear.
2007-01-23 18:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋