guys i was wondering would you rather be rejected at the get go, or given a chance and after like a week if its not working get let know? or if youve been tlakign to them and just dont see them in that way anymore should you give thema chance romantically or tell them that well...you dont see them that way?
2007-01-23 10:22:06 · 14 answers · asked by ugly truth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
at the beggining i was attracted but now im not sure...
2007-01-23 10:30:11 · update #1
if i like him more then that
2007-01-23 10:30:24 · update #2
If you already know the answer and wouldnt give me a chance id rather be rejected, but if you were gonna see where things went then id rather have the week.
2007-01-23 10:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would much rather be given a chance than to be rejected right off the bat. I think that a girl should give a guy a chance unless he's ugly or something.
2007-01-23 18:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by packerswes4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to be rejected from the start. When you give someone a chance, it gets him excited and provides hope for a relationship. It is more kind to reject someone outright than rip that happy feeling away.
2007-01-23 18:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two schools of thought, here.
1) If there is no attraction, then you don't need to give a guy hope.
2) If there is no initial attraction, then you could always be a friend.
2007-01-23 18:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly aren't interested in the guy, then I think you should tell them up front at the beginning. However, if you're not sure then what's the harm in going on a date or two and seeing if something develops?
2007-01-23 18:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Christopher 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are unsure, I'd rather you give me a chance. However, if you are going to waste my time and just want to use me for the date (e.g. cuz you want to eat the fancy dinner), just tell me right away:
"Look, I already like this other guy. I really, really like him. So my feelings are with him right now"
If he asked you who... then you can get angry and tell him its none of his business.
2007-01-23 18:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather be kicked off the island quick.
No use going for the coconuts when the trees can't be climbed.
2007-01-23 18:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
given a chance-defianantly
2007-01-23 18:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pry just give them a chance they may change your perspective towards them if you spend some time with them and actually give them a chance. try it out and see where it goes
2007-01-23 18:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by Crazy ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would rather get rejected right away better than wasting time think she likes you and being happy and then getting dumped
2007-01-23 18:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋