I asked this before and I got 21 positive answers. I can't believe it because good things don't really happen to me all that much or evere actually. Here is the story...He is always staring at me aimlessly and picks me first for everything. We never really liked eachother as friends. I seriously liked him in 5th grade. But that is it. He is my neighbor and he is always outside when I am. I am a cheerleader and he is a basketball player. I wonder what wil happen next? What should I do? What is going on? I really like him as well! I am too afraid to do anything and I am not allowed to date until I am older. I know that it is a lot, but your help is greatly appreciated.
2007-01-23 09:52:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, he is on the top of the food chain I am on the bottom. The only reason that I am a cheerleader is because my friend dared me to do it.
2007-01-23 09:56:14 · update #1
I recently told a guy that I liked him and then I was made fun of for the next 2 months.
We are both in eithother's classes. ALl of them
We are in a "smart people's club" or whatever. It is during school
We sit next to eachother in every subject. Today in science he asked if we could switch seats (we got switched together today)
2007-01-23 10:09:00 · update #2
If you can't date just be friends for now.
2007-01-23 09:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by onecutebyrd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget it!!!!!! there is oviously atraction there going bolth ways, but if your not alowed to date untill your older I would say your to young now either way!! Im 24 right now, and I can tell you that dating is ALOT more fun when parents dont get involved, (not worth it when parents are hanging over your head) and you realize that if someone dumps you there is always a rebound, (If your a hot looking cheerleader I wont be wrong!!)
2007-01-23 10:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the spontaneity of it all. Its blunt and can be romantic at the same time. For instance, when I was working at the library on my college campus, there was this guy who slid over to the counter and told me, "I am sorry this is going to sound really nuts, considering you dont know me, but I just think you are the prettiest girl I have ever seen and I would really like to get to know you." Then we exchanged numbers. Sometimes subtlety can be annoying....especially if I know right off the bat I dont like you the same...just get on with it cause your just wasting your time if I dont like you.
2016-03-28 23:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not be able to date, but that doesn't mean you couldn't have something going on at school. Not to mention, he's your neighbor, your parents could think he's just a friend of yours. I'd say go do some flirting with your pom poms.
2007-01-23 09:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since your Folks are smart enough to have you wait. Thank `em for showing their Love for you. Then! use this time to really get to know him. His likes, dislikes, ambitions, etc; Real Relationships, last when they become close friends, FIRST! You've got plenty of time to tell him who you are. Enjoy these times.They won't last forever. Kudo's to your Folks! God Bless.
2007-01-23 09:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give him a note or something saying that you want to talk to him and to me you some where and then there you can ask him, then since you are not allowed to date become friends ,but dont forget to tell him that when you are allowed to date , then he can be your bf!
2007-01-23 10:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how long u still have to date tho? either way if ur saying hes always around u this n that ,lets say u went outside and he came outside and saw u ,just tell him whats this uve been stalking me or something?just see what he says ,if he says something really good ...lead ur conversation to ''liking ''each other..just wait n see
2007-01-23 09:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by cynthia b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Glide your hand over his Lap and let Biology do the rest!
2007-01-23 09:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by Rembrandt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you said it yourself...you got positive answers! yea i think he likes you...and doesn't it feel great to be certain about that from people all over america?? that's what i did too...i love hearing what everyone else has to say. but i say go for it girl!! he definately likes you!
2007-01-23 09:57:26 · answer #9 · answered by Surfergirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG .... he likes you. go over and tlak to him. ask him if he wants to go to the movies. don't tell you parents if your not allowed. you can cover it up by tell you paretns your going to the movies with you friends.
2007-01-23 09:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by GirlyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋