Ok here's the thing it has to be reallie good.
we've been dating for 1 year and last tuesday i had sex with a 23 year old college guy & my BF found out and got upset & thought i was leavin him 4 a younger guy LOL IM NOT
but i love him and i want him to know i love him so i was thinkin of proposing but he has to divorce his wife first so maybe htats a bad idea what do i get him thats not expensive?
2007-01-23 09:46:17 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get him a clue, pick one up for yourself as well
2007-01-23 09:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by Out $1000 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Strongly agree with Sleepymcg...
Boatloads of therapy and here's the kicker:
He's one hiccup away from being a pedophile. That's way too much of an age difference.
Grow some esteem and find a younger BF. Better yet, call this pedophile's wife and encourage the two to work out their marital problems so that you can see your way out of this tangle of drama.
The best of luck to you...
2007-01-23 09:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's married he won't get a divorce, you are his toy, along with a mess of other teenie boppers. Best thing to do with that is to send him a big good bye, he is the perfect making of a child molester. When someone is old enough to be your dad, something is definitely wrong with that pic. A 10 year difference not bad, and 30 year difference you are being used.
2007-01-23 09:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by spiritwalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might need to reconsider your position in relationships.
You're having an affair with a 50 year old man, you had sex with a 23 year old, and you're only 18?
It might be a good idea to think about what's going on a bit before you do anything further.
2007-01-23 09:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Philosophizer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In the first place why are you going out with a 49 yr. old guy that is already married. You are 18 and you had sex with a 23 yr. old guy while going out with this 49 yr. old guy.. he must be hot if you are going out with him. i would say get him some cologne. guys love that stuff. don't know why but they do.
2007-01-23 09:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 49 year old is having a midlife crises and nothing else. he's using you for sex and nothing else. marriage is not an option, it won't happen in a million years. the best you can do is give him candy - because his wife would probably kill you. personally i think your going to get yourself into a lot of trouble and end up with a really broken heart.
2007-01-23 09:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by mike s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you should end your relationship with him. Dating a married man is not a very smart idea, and it seems that subconsciously you know that, which is why you slept with a 23 year old.
If you have to get him something, it will have to be something that his wife will not see. Chocolates you can eat together maybe?
2007-01-23 09:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Uh...maybe you should buy him a divorce. Maybe a double doctor appointments for the both of you because it sounds like STD city where you're livin'. God! Have some self respect.
2007-01-23 09:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him whatever you want, though personally, nothing says I love you than being true to yourself. Tthe fact that he's still married and with you shows where his feelings lie. Though the fact that you cheated on him doesn't speak very well of you, either.
2007-01-23 09:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by Honesty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a giant bear that says i love you.you are never too old to have a soft toy.
Oh...and don't listen to all the jerks that are saying stuff about the age gap.
2007-01-23 09:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL
You should break up with him for Valentines day.
Wtf.
Your going out with a 49 year old?! Thats older then my dad..
Thats honestly disturbing.
2007-01-23 09:50:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋