My bf( if u asnwered the question bout," is he too violent and wrong for me?) yes hes my bf-sry ppl...but i decided to giv him a chance. ok here it is:
--I tried to just "take it slow" w/ him-but he got p.o and now hes following(stalking)me and wen he talks to me he grabs me by the hair and starts to hurt me...all im askn is that is it his fault(meaning is he just kidding or bn serious?) or am i TOTALLY w/ a son of the basterd?
2007-01-23 09:41:17 · 13 answers · asked by Boingo&Fuzzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you for real right now?? i mean its common sense re-read your question and there is your answer" he grabs me by the hair and starts to hurt me" if any man would try to even do that once to me id crack him you really need to leave this loser yeh your bf is a loser if he puts his hands on you and if you put up with it you need help the sooner the better cuz it could turn deadly when you least expect it good luck
2007-01-23 09:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARGH...you got away once and then you went back. While I understand it, you weren't really bright. Anyone who would be violent and abusive even ONCE doesn't deserve a second chance. So, now you get to get yourself back OUT and NOT go back.
Yes, he's serious. There is no kidding about grabbing someone by the hair and hurting them. It's not a joke, and it's NOT a mistake. He's trying to see if you're stupid enough to put up with it. The more you stay, the worse it will get. This is the pattern of an abuser. If he thinks you're going to leave, he'll turn really sweet and caring. RUN AWAY. LEAVE. DON'T LOOK BACK.
And YES, you're with a total sob.
Now, you get to make a choice, continue to put up with it, knowing it won't get better or be smart and get out.
2007-01-23 17:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a number that you can call...911
why are so scared of this pathetic loser? Do you own some gambling debt to the mafia? Is he in some form of the mafia and has told you secrets or something and that you need to go onto a witness protection program or something...no...he is only using loser tactics and that is to frighten you...all he needs is a good *** kicking and he will never ever bother you again...
2007-01-23 17:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both you need to get some help before something bad happens to you and your son
2007-01-23 17:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by sharktale33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like the poster child of domestic violence, and if given the opportunity he will kill you. He's a scumbag and you need to move on!
2007-01-23 17:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's his fault, he shouldn't treat you like that. He is a total son of a gun.
2007-01-23 17:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's totally NOT YOUR FAULT!!! he is being too rough with you. you deserve a guy who respects you, not one who hurts you. don't let him do something to you that makes you uncomfortable...take an eye for an eye if all else fails...e.g. if he pulls your hair, pull his, if he slaps you, slap him back. he deserves it!!
2007-01-23 17:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by Surfergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG your with a son of a bastard.. break up with him if it means to stick with him you have to be hurt!!!
2007-01-23 17:45:56 · answer #8 · answered by (: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg chick!! get out of there! u could end up seriously hurt! he doesn't deserve u or anyone for that matter!! just plz break up w/ him!!
2007-01-23 17:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by Rachael L. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did a good thing by taking it slow but if it bothers you tell him
2007-01-23 17:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by kkkk53564367 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋