Please help! I can't tell if he's interested in me!?

Question

He's in the same group of friends as me, so we see each other quite often. He'll often sit next to me or stand near me, or follow me into a different room. He often looks at me from across the room and smiles at me, and when we're in a group laughing about something he'll make eye contact with me. He often seems to be listening to conversations I'm having with other people and sometimes joins in, or comments on something I've said. I'm too shy to say anything to him, and he's shy as well. Do you think he likes me as more than a friend? What other clues should I look for?

Answer 1

You know after you ask a guy out the shy factor goes out the window, even if he's not interested.

Answer 2

Have you had a conversation with him before? One on one like just you and him?

If not then maybe you can try to nexted time your all together... see what he does if you just ask him a question.

You say your both shy well that's okay you just may have a harder time to really know if he does. Even though your shy try your best to make him feel comfortable when your around him. So he can try himself not to be so shy. As far as if I think he like you more than a friend? Well... I would say he is interested. but I am not 100% sure since I am not him. What other clues should you look for? I would try to listen to your heart! Looking for clues is one thing but some times you wont know anything because your looking in the wrong direction. Don't get me wrong the things you have noticed are good. I would just listen to myself and see if that helps.

You can try to ask one of your friends or his friends closer ones but that can cause problems...

Good luck!

Answer 3

friends don't look at each other in the eye from across the room. i don't have an advice on how the two of you can meet up, but it sounds like he likes you. just be sure to make the eye contact and smile back thing like he does.

as far as other clues - i don't know, that's all i really know. you could touch his arm or something while talking. but i never mastered that myself. but as a girl you can get away with it better.

Answer 4

Well, it sure seems to me like he likes you! He is doing everything a guy does to show signs of that!

Why not go on a double date? You & he can go on a date with another guy & girl from your group. Why not go to a movie and a pizza place? You mentioned he is shy.. well, maybe it will break the ice more if you two were in a smaller group. You will have a chance to talk more one-on-one with him. Hope this helps!

Answer 5

You say you're both shy so you can't wait around for him to ask you. The first time you ask someone out, your stomach will do flip-flops and it will be really difficult. But after that it gets much easier. Take it from someone who used to be very shy. If I hadn't pursued a relationship with my husband, I wouldn't be with him now.

The signs are all there, so the next time he follows you into another room, you just need to ask him casually if he wants to do something with you, something that's comfortable for both of you. It could be something active like riding bikes or skating, or it could be to go get a bite to eat or check out a museum. Since you hang out a lot, you know what his interests are and that makes it easier for you.

I'm not telling you it'll be easy, but you'll be so glad you did.

Answer 6

I once was on a plane from Europe back to the States, and the plane made an emergency landing in Iceland. The pilots had received a message that the plane was set to explode. We landed in the middle of the runway and were escorted away by NATO soldiers. Nobody was told what was going on at the time. The people in charge planned to let the plane explode on the runway. False alarm in the end, but a very cool story, and I got to stay at a 4 star hotel for free.

Answer 7

It's hard to tell with shy guys and simple actions like that. The best way to find out would be to try to get the courage to talk to him. If you're interested, you'd need to be able to communicate to have a relationship anyways so try to start conversation. It's the best way to know rather than just wondering for awhile

Answer 8

im pretty sure he likes u:] u can usually tell because most guys ur age r over the "if im mean she wont know i like her" stage. so that means if he likes u, he'll probably defend u in arguements and be nice 2 u. the eye contact and smiling, DEFINETLY a big sign:] and by the way, if u ever plan on asking him out, make sure u dont do it to suddenly or drastically, make it calm, not like"OMG I LOVE U" lol, make it calm and simple, but dont shock them too much:]i hope i helped! good luck:]

Answer 9

He's already given you almost every clue in the book. Maybe hint towards how you think it would be cool if you two hung out just the two of you sometime and see if he takes it from there. I bet that is all you need to do to take it to being more than just friends. Good luck!

Answer 10

I think if you are serious about this then ask him: What do you like in a girl?... try to talk to him about relationships and see if he is serious about you, but never put across that you like him untill your shore... because that might put him off...
let me advise you... relationships are no good without proper commitment because it ends up in pain, so slowly tell him (when you think its right), what you feel about him.(My way is marriage as soon as possible, but that is part of my religion and culture, that a man and woman have a relationship after marriage)... you don't want your sons to be bastards... the dad run away or something, so always watch out.

Answer 11

I definitely think he is interested in you if he is only doing this with you. Other clues- if he faces his body towards you while talking in a group, if he mimics your stance or actions, and if he leans in when he is talking to you. If you are both shy, one of you has to make a move and it looks like it is going to be you. Deep breath and go, you may be very pleasantly surprised!