I was dating this guy. We were on our way to becoming serious. I dint know he was starting to feel differently about it all. When I brought it up he said he was feeling pressured and that he wanted to take it slow. we were having regular sex. I really thought we were moving forward in our relationship. He said he thought we should stop having sex b/c that was going to make my feelings grow.
we stopped having sex and sleeping together for 3wks now. this past weekend however we threw all of that to the wind and slept in the same bed. he tried to initiate sex but i wouldnt go through with it. that night he tried to play it off like he thought he was dreaming. why wont he own up to the fact that he wanted to have sex?
I want commitment but he doesnt so why am i still hanging around? i dont know what to do.
2007-01-23 09:34:55 · 6 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE IS A M.A.N . This means that they were born to play games on you if you let him. I think that he told you that you guys needed to chil for a while and you should stick to it until you want him. Cause after all he was the one who stopped it in the first place and he shouldn't be able to have that control over your boby as well.
2007-01-23 09:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lordes D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a matter of YOUR heart and no one on here can tell you what to do.... YOU have to look deep into your own heart and let it lead you.... It all sounds strange to me tho... most men do NOT just give up sex... the only reason they would, and I have been around long enough to have seen it many times, is IF they are ummmmm having an afair... sorry, to say that, and it may NOT be the case but I strongly suggest you look into the matter... be discreat because you do NOT want to accuse him of it IF it is NOT what is going on......... God bless
2007-01-23 17:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hoping that u can change his mind and trust me u cant ,move on find someone who is mature enough to take care of your needs and your wants.
2007-01-23 17:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and find somneone more interested in you. He just wants a sex toy without the strings attached.
2007-01-23 17:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
giv it som time and see. if hes really scared of commitment, then tell him u wan it and if he really dont, then it aint gon work.
2007-01-23 17:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's actin like that he feels guilty!! he must have done something he thinks u'll hate him for! ask him!
~April~
2007-01-23 17:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by April Agnostic™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋