Hi.
I really like this girl that i know. I like everything about here, personality, amazing beauty and brains. She doesnt have a boyfriend and dont know why not because she should have loads of guys all over her. Anyway...I want to know how i should ask her out. i am really shy and not too confident and we tend to talk alot online. i get the impression that she likes me but i have had bad times with girls so i aint gonna be too sure.
What do i do?
Any advice would be soo much use. thanks
2007-01-23 09:17:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know this sounds kinda weird but get into a like queston game with her online.........then randomely ask her if she likes you.......she probably will say yes, then when it's her time for a question...she will prob. ask u the same question u will then say yes then, when it's ur turn to ask her a question again ask her if she would go out with u .........easy as that..hope i helped
2007-01-23 09:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by shassan91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man you need to take her to a romantic place, anywhere in school, make sure that it is quiet( the library,) then when you are all the way in the back, where nobody is, ask her out. you said she chats with you online, you already have 25% chance that she will say yes because she already knows you. the rest 75% percent depends on how you ask, when you ask, and your apperence when you ask. if she is sort of prepie, then go to abercrombie and buy some decent clothes. be prepared. and when you do ask her out and get your answer, email me at roadruler99@yahoo.com, do this quick, or she might get a other boyfriend, good luck.
2007-01-23 17:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Pistonsfan101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her out, the worst thing she can tell you is no. You really don't want to live your life wondering what should have been or what could have been, so take a chance.
You also cant blame all girls for what 1 or 2 girls did to you in your past.
2007-01-23 17:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by ??♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That lack of confidence could be a problem, girls like confidence. Just step up and don't be afraid of the outcome. Be yourself. Don't beat around the bush or try to set up a perfect romantic escapade for the first date. Good luck, guy.
2007-01-23 17:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I think the best thing you can do is put a party together with a few friends and invite her over as a guest. At the party, try to spend a lot of time with her - make sort of "comfortable date", so its not clear whether its romance and friendship.
That will help your shy self-esteem remain comfortable. During the evening suggest that you want to go and see a concert/musical/museum ( not a movie, please, its so cliche!) and invite her casually to join you.
2007-01-23 19:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by Rita B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i'm a girl and i'm outgoing about everything else except asking guys out, but hey, you gotta make that move sometimes, i'm glad you like her for mature reasons and like her for more than her looks...be brave hun..it's okay...talk about relationships online and then maybe you'll be able to ask her out in person, just be you and be sincere, wll you have to do is tell her that you like her...say something like "what do you think about us"..make it random in a way...good luck
2007-01-23 17:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by music ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay
u have 2 ask her if she likes u because gurls hate it when guys make them fell like they're being stocked or something,believe me if a guy liked me the way u like her then they would have showed me a sign,so just talk 2 her online and tell her that u like her and u want 2 go out with her.
2007-01-23 17:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that!!!!
Just ask her to meet for a coffee or whatever do it!!!
Cause if you don't you'll regret never doing it
The worst that can happen is that she says no
If you don't ask you don't get.
Get in there young man or I'll do it myself lol
Go for it!!!
Hope this helps
2007-01-23 17:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by Zenlife07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, just ask her. The worst thing she can do is say no. Take a chance. Be a man and do it, that's what a girl likes.
2007-01-23 17:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by Brookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk up to her or meet her somewhere if shes a good friend. joke around with her then ask her out. youll only get rejected.
2007-01-23 17:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by Killercobra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋