Went out with a guy years ago, I finished it and we stayed close friends. He has always told me he would still like to be my bf but it never felt right for me at the time. He told me he had to move on and has been seeing a girl for a few years and I have a bf. It has occured to me that I really miss him. Never felt this emotional connection with anyone else. Do I just want what I can't have?
2007-01-23 09:16:41 · 11 answers · asked by sammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had a relationship like that before. it took me 10 years to figure out that i was more in love with the romance of it all, rather than the guy himself. the problem is that when u are parted from someone u care about & miss, u are prone to thinking about all the good times, and u forget about why u had to end the relationship in the first place, and all those annoying habits they have that drove u mad ! are u unhappy in your present relationship ? sometimes when we are unhappy with our present situation, we look for comfort and happiness in places that we have found it before. i think u need to sit down & have a serious think about your life. if u are unhappy in the relationship that u are in at the moment, then move on. don't waste your life on relationships that not right for u.
2007-01-23 10:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've probably just now came to the conclusion within yourself that it really is over. Maybe you miss him missing/wanting you. That's pretty normal. What about your bf? I'm sure you must have a connection with him, otherwise, you're probably with the wrong person, or you yourself haven't moved on yet. Maybe you need to be single for ahile, and find out what you want.
2007-01-23 17:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have regretted a few, but in the end it always worked out for the best no matter how s***** it felt in the mean time.
2007-01-23 17:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by kodiackgazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're probably just remembering good times and how good they were. if its been a few years and you only just notice you miss him, its not really a sign that you missed out on anything. maybe you're just bored or sad about something and thinking about the past. maybe you should address any issues with your boyfriend?
2007-01-23 17:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just want what you cant have, but if it didnt seem right before its not likely to again, so just try to accept that he is taken and so are you.
2007-01-23 17:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have one i regret.. fell for some one.. i knew i wanted to be friends with and turned out bad... but that is not what you are talking about R U
2007-01-23 20:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got used to him being their for you.
you either do a big hollywood style thing like " I WANT YOU BACK" risking everything or leave him to it.
2007-01-23 17:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know. he's told you he's moved on , maybe you should too! Life eh!
2007-01-23 17:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by good_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the anwer.
2007-01-23 17:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sure is possible that you want what you cant have or just simply wonder what couldve been if...
2007-01-23 17:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋