We were dating for about 5 months, and then we kinda just stopped. I called it off last week bcuz my ex seemed to not have time for me. And I was thinking that it would be like every other time we broke up, we'd get right back together... or at least stayed close friend, because we are/were like best friends before the last couple of weeks. but since then things haven't really gotten better. It's really really hard for me, and I don't know if I should lose my pride, and keep trying to get back together... or just wait and see what happens. My ex "forced themself" to move on, as to not get hurt... and I don't know if the reason we're not talking as much is to make it easier on my ex to move on... or if it's just completely over friendship and all... I really don't want to stop trying, if that's what i need to do to fix it... but I don't want to be a pest either.
2007-01-23 09:14:52 · 9 answers · asked by lilmissheiress 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex says that they tried to move on, because they thought that's what i wanted, and it'd be easier on me, if they were the bad guy... but since then I've realized that I do actually want them... Now they think it's better for me if we aren't together, because I "deserve better"... but im willing to put everything that's happened between us... both our wrongs, in the past...
2007-01-23 09:24:36 · update #1
I've tried forgetting about them completely...from my phone, AIM, myspace... and it ended up being pretty unsuccessful... we've just been pretty much inseparable for the last 6 months... so it's hard just not talking at all... being together or not
2007-01-23 09:26:57 · update #2
WOW~~~This is a tough one. Best answer I can come up with is toss a coin. Really I think you are going to need to have a now or never talk. No one but you can say here which way you should go, but until it's settled and both have been honest you won't know what could or will be.~~~~~ Jill
2007-01-23 09:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'd say if u broke it off...and ur ex doesnt want u back, u cant force it...it was ur choice....but try to talk to them it might be over it might not but it sounds like ur ex is def trying hard to move on and forget u....i wish i had that strength cuz im goin thru the same thing...after a while u have to ask urself is it really worth it? or are we both just gonna end up getting hurt? sometimes giving up is having the strength to let go
2007-01-23 17:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be the type of person whom you think the man of your dreams would want you to be. Then become that person. As your ex begins to notice you for what characteristics and qualities you have, then he will come back. If, however, he does not seem interested, then you have learned that he really isn't the guy for you.
You win both ways!
2007-01-23 17:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. Delete them from your phone, off your buddy list, and off myspace. If this is a repeat pattern this is not healthy for either or you and obviously it is only going to keep happening. Walk away before you both hurt each other more and more.
2007-01-23 17:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by kodiackgazer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If hes moving on, i think thats a sign that you should too
2007-01-23 17:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by sweet papaya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you know that this is over and it's time to do your own thing. Good luck.
2007-01-23 17:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try and see how it goes talk to her though
2007-01-23 17:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by manandy55 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a bodybuilder with cool hair.
2007-01-23 17:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well- just let him be and if he really loves you he will look for you.
2007-01-23 17:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by mari d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋