I know how I feel (bullsh!t) and I'm pretty sure of the response I'll get from the women, but is that how you guys justify it?
2007-01-23 09:14:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's called "rationalization". These men ratioinalize the deception as being "ok"..and not cheating..so that they can go on with a clear concience. It's sad, really.
2007-01-23 09:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by Amandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, let me say I feel it is real sex... real wonderful sex. Years ago men dreamed of oral sex. Men would talk of it as an almost unimaginable treat, high on the list of sexual desires they had little hope of ever fulfilling. And then there is today, it is just part of foreplay.
Young males aren't complaining because it is rarely reciprocal. For some reason the guys are not returning the favor... and what a treat they are missing and will miss in the future unless they learn now to please later.
But is it really cheating, of course it is... anything that would cause hurt to one's SO if it came out can be classified as being unfaithful.
2007-01-23 18:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by reefshark111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my best friend sat and tried to come up with a good definition of "cheating" and this was our result...Cheating: Anything u do that u know your significant other would not approve of or accept if they knew u did it. So if your male friends have a girl friend and they truly believe that they can get oral sex from someone else and be able to go back to that girlfriend and let her know without it being an issue then i guess that wouldn't be considered cheating (like that'll ever happen)...
2007-01-23 17:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oral sex is sex and if you are in a relationship and have ANY kind of sex, it's cheating!i would love to hear a guy try to justify this one!
2007-01-23 17:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know anyone who would consider oral not cheating! This guy is just a horn dog who wants it from everyone.
2007-01-23 17:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Prestidigitator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want themselves to believe that so they do. They just need an excuse to do it. ANY FORM OF INTIMACY whether its a hug, kiss, or whatever is cheating! ANY one with common sense knows that.
2007-01-23 17:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your next boyfriend (if he tells you that it isn't cheating) that you will be giving AND receiving plenty of it from others, including his friends, since he thinks not, and see what he says!
Thank you, come again!
2007-01-23 17:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its pretty obvious it is a lame excuse for those guys who cheat
2007-01-23 17:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by balbossa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can justify having sex with their second cousin....and totally convince themselves that they aren't that "related" to each other.
2007-01-23 17:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when is oral sex not followed by intercourse. cheating is cheating.
2007-01-23 17:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋