2007-01-23 09:08:08 · 7 answers · asked by Hockey gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've learned in my time that most people critique themselves rather poorly. I too used to think I was fat and it took me many years to realize I was only a little over weight. We are our own worse critic and we need to get out of that line of thought.
Now, if you truly are "fat" which I doubt, the one main problem is that it takes a well endowed man to satisfy you but if I'm right, your only problem is your own thoughts about yourself. That will keep you down for no good reason.
Snap out of it and start believing in yourself and you'll see that things will start to get better. I've seen lots of beautiful large women, some of them I wouldn't have any other way.
2007-01-23 09:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi. properly it incredibly relies upon on the guy to purely like women... there are some adult males who're in simple terms fascinated interior the seems and character and stuff dont rely... yet there are people who seems a the personailty greater advantageous than the seems.. and there are people who weigh the seems and character... often times it doesnt even rely in spite of if the lady/guy seems solid or have a solid personalilty.. in simple terms being around them so oftentimes and chatting with them being gentle human beings in simple terms locate one yet another fascinating. thats what i think of and experience how adult males are often times yet no longer purely to the adult males it is going for the ladies besides... in simple terms like the way you will see a pair who the guy is super lovable and the lady is like ok looking and it is going an identical for a brilliant lovable female and an ok guy... n theres couples the place they are super super lovable at the same time like the guy is nice-looking and the lady is gorgeous (it the two skill they are going based on the seems or they have been meant to be at the same time).
2016-12-12 18:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that the reason you can't find a boyfriend is because you're thinking too low of yourself. Low self-esteem is not good gurl ... start by loving yourself ... then people will see that about you and sooner or later you will find someone who will love you for who you are both outside and inside.
Good luck!!!
2007-01-23 09:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Nicegal 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first comment. Not to sound overtly superficial, but I think it's human nature to want to date someone that you're attracted to, and especially at a young age when physicality is such a large component of your mindset. Personally, I don't find anything immoral about looking at the outside first (and my excuse isn't the media) because it isn't anymore superficial than anyone else is... are you telling me if you looked at two guys and one was hot and one was ugly you wouldn't look towarsd the attractive one first? No one's at fault there, it's just natural. Now in the case of someone having legitimate feelings for someone else and dumping them solely because of a deficiency in attraction, I think that's wrong.
2007-01-23 09:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by dude 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that question is soooo funny, anyways you have to accept the truth, either you deal with it, or you just loose weight, and honestly from what i've expiernced, guys here on yahoo answers go for the looks,
2007-01-23 09:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by Pistonsfan101 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they only look at the package, like they have learned on TV.
2007-01-23 09:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, but not until we get older.
2007-01-23 09:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋