what are you supposed to do? All of my friends think me and my guy are perfect together and logically it makes sense but for some reason my heart isn't all in it and this makes me feel unsure. What can I do?
2007-01-23 09:06:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say if you are unsure about the relationship you are in, it is normal. But if your heart is not all in it, then you should get out of it. You are doing yourself and the other person no good, in the end it comes down to your heart, follow it.
2007-01-23 09:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone goes thru periods of doubt. I really did at first with my hubby, but we have been together for 9 years now, married 6 1/2 and i love him more now than i did at first, and i always questioned what i was doing, and thought he loved me more than i loved him, but now we can't get enough of each other, and we love each other more now than we did before, it has only gotten better with time.
Question yourself a little more with what you really want to do, otherwise stick out a little longer and if your feelings don't change or don't evolve more than do something about it.
2007-01-23 17:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about it some more if your heart isn't in it 100% that means that either you don't like him as much as you say or you think that there is something wrong with the relationship
2007-01-23 17:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by JennLee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust your feelings. Relationships are inherently illogical, so don't mind that. Every important aspect of a healthy relationship is emotional, and logic simply doesn't apply there.
2007-01-23 17:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by tfmemnoch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens...it's a little thing called chemistry. Sometimes your guy is really nice and you both have similar interest, bu tthere is no spark. It may be hard but dont let your friends dictate your life...you shouldn't lead this guy on.
2007-01-23 17:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush in to it.
I can totally relate to how you feel. If it doesn't feeeeeel right, then take your time and give it a chance to flourish if he's worth it.
Don't let people pressure you in to a relationship. If there is chemistry...things should click.
2007-01-23 17:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, the heart knows more then the brain.
My first thought would be to listen to your heart.
2007-01-23 18:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give it time..
then make a decision
but you don't want to regret this opportunity
2007-01-23 17:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by canuckclint 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋