Ok my boyfriend has been such a jerk to me lately and i dont understand why. i have not done any thing wrong, and he has just been mean to me. wat do i do. i love him SO much but what can i do to make him stop being mean?
2007-01-23 09:00:54 · 17 answers · asked by britttany s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore him and treat him like sh**..that will wake him up
2007-01-23 09:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try confronting him, and asking him what's going on, and why he has been acting so differently lately. Be kind about it though, or else he may get insulted. Try to also understand his situation, if he is having a hard time at home, or school, or something. Just be kind, and be honest, also, about how you feel when he treats you this way. Just try talking to him. Good Luck!
2007-01-23 17:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by mysterious girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel, if he doesn't respect your opinions, and if that aint good enough, ditch him ! he's supposed to be ur bf ryte?! so, why is he acting like a jerk to you, maybe there is a reason for this behavoir, just ask him why ! confront him! if he don't change, then that could be a sign that he don't like you no more! i'm sorry, but truth hurts! do what u have to sista! MWAH
2007-01-23 17:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by baby phat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anybody do anything. If he's mean, get out. Well, talk to him first, ask him why he's being mean...maybe he's got stress somewhere else in his life, and he is wrongly taking it out on you. If he has no reason, or if after talking about it he doesn't stop, walk away. And if the meanness is ever in public, or if it ever escalates to emotional or physical violence, get out instantly. "Love" almost never overcomes abuse.
2007-01-23 17:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by Qwyrx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being a jerk because he may want to end things and doesn't know how so he wants you to. Either that or he is just a douche bag. LEAVE HIM!!!
2007-01-23 17:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you haven't done anything wrong, but possibly you also haven't done anything right. If you love him so much, go down on him and do him a good b#$w job. If he still doesn't change his behaviour, at least you know you did everything. Cheers.
2007-01-23 17:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by curious 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try talking to him, let him know how you feel. If that doesn't work, get a new bf- it's not worth your time to put effort into maintaining a one sided relationship!
2007-01-23 17:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by churnin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing serious.
just ask him what's up.
why is he being such a jerk? you can work from there.
if he continues being a total jerk, dump his fat ***!
2007-01-23 17:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by A Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy formula:
Show him you are needy and naggy = Jerk
Show him independence, maturity and indiference = him begging like a doggie.
Trust me!
2007-01-23 17:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by head_blown_apart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a letter that explains what he is doing, and ask him to sit down and have a heart to heart conversation. maybe you are the one doing something wrong.
2007-01-23 17:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a jerk you should dump him
2007-01-23 17:05:03 · answer #11 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋