my ex bf gf is getting on me and my best friends last nerves, she is completly obsessed with us and i dont kno why!! 1st off. we dont kno each other. all we kno is im the ex she is the current. and everyday at skool she is constantly starring down me and my best friend.(her bestfriend is in my 2nd and she starres at me also).she even freakin requested us on myspace!!---(ugh RUDE). also today she looked my bestfriend strait in the eye and gave her the meanest look as if my friend did somethign to her. i dont get this. she has him. he hates me (from what i can tell..we dont speak anymore) why is she so obsessed with me!? yea i catch him staring at me in class every now and then but she dont kno that. shes all his. me and him are done. i dont kno what her problem is but i do kno that she is pushing me to the edge and i feel like cussing her out. my friend said not to cuz she will keep doing it cuz she knos it bothers me but iono what to do...help much plz!
2007-01-23 08:58:55 · 21 answers · asked by Ladyjack12 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously she feels threatened by you. She must have some insecurities...Maybe your ex talks about you...good or bad probably doesn't matter....I imagine she feels if your somehow in their conversation, your in their relationship. You seem pretty level headed, don't let her get to you. Be the mature one. It is bound to get old eventually.....Good luck
2007-01-23 09:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Tammy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-24 01:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you...dont do it. Cause if you do, you'll just let her know you acknowledge that she hates you) for sum obvious reason). The bitchiest was to be a biotch, in my opinion, is to kill her with kindness. Next time you catch her looking at you, wave with the biggest smile you've ever smiled. It's fake, but who cares...obviously, she hates you, so make her feel like crap cause you know.... your such a nice girl, who could possibly hate you!!! ;) When you pass her, say Hey! in a very cheerful voice. Trust me! This will def work. After she gets the point that your not intimidated by her and dont notice her trying to be a hard azz, she'll quit. She'll feel like an idiot for trying to be mean to you!
2007-01-23 09:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by punky brewster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok it is obvious that she does not like you but its not because of you as a person its cuz your the ex of her man she obviously feels threatened by you and what you guys once had and lets be honest most of your bfs ex's u didnt like much either most of us girls do not but the myspace thing well maybe she is just checkn if he writes you messages or comments and such my friend did that to her mans ex also lol good luck
2007-01-23 09:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, don't go punching her coz that would get you into trouble and I'm sure you don't want to give her that pleasure.
Secondly, you need to calm down and just ignore her. That will bother her even more. Just ignore her completely and pretend like she doesn't even exist. See how it goes. I'll bet anything that you'll be the one having the last laugh. Good luck!
2007-01-23 09:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by green_baby_dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps if he hates you, she is giving you stares based on what HE has told about you. He must have fed her stories knowing full well it would bug you (even if the stories weren't true). She's just trying to act tough. Be the better person and ignore it. If you ignore something long enough it'll go away and YOU will emerge the victorious and better looking person!
2007-01-23 09:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mickey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She apperantly insecure. Maybe the thought of you and her boyfriend worries her. Pay no attention, she just wants to get on your nerves. Maybe you should ask her what her problem is and just let her know that you are not interrested in her boyfriend that you've moved on and they should do the same.
2007-01-23 09:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her! If you burst you will just be giving her what she wants! The best thing to do is to ignore people like that. She is not worth you time. Good Luck.
2007-01-23 09:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont know what her and your ex talk about on the phone maybe he talks about you a lot to her and you just dont know so she tries to get on you cause she is worried and if you dont like the girl tell her to get out of your face you aint scarred of her
2007-01-23 09:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awesome.. I love catfights... go for it!
Oh and all that school stuff, maybe your ex bf gf is just using your ex bf to get a little girl girl thing going on with you, i think she's jealous and wants to hook up with you instead of your ex bf.
2007-01-23 09:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by JT 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋