There's a girl in my class who I used to talk to and I also used to like her but I feel like she really hates me now and I'm thinking about ignoring her from now on....She's really trying to express this hate to me. Should I just say to her that I don't want to talk to her the next time she tries to talk to me or should I talk to her about this situation....?
2007-01-23 08:58:44 · 9 answers · asked by air1990 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why would she go out of her way to prove she hates you? what a biotch....actually maybe she likes you if she cares so much to prove otherwise
2007-01-23 09:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand, why she's hatting you? if you done something wrong, so you should talk to her and apologize. If she is doing it for no reasons, so she's seek you're better of leaving her alone and do not even care or pay attention, I'm sure, she will get the massage. But my only guess is that, people react differently some times, specially in your age. She probably likes you, she just doest know how to response to her feelings and you, so you could always talk to her, NOT IN BEGGING MODE, KEEP YOUR COOL ! If you assume that, she has no feelings, turn your back, say by and KEEP YOUR COOL ! Unfortunately, it's name of the game !
2007-01-23 17:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to her about your feelings. It may be something that can be worked out once it is in front of both of you. If after talking it still does not work out then I would just ignore her, but at least you have tried to handle it the mature way.
2007-01-23 17:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ginny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she is yelling "I hate you" to your face I don't think she hates you. Don't ignore her because you might regret it she might like you and just doesn't want her friends to know about this liking for you. If you talk to her and you still have some feelings for her flirt with her to see if she flirts back. Now if you really like her ask her out yourself don't send a friend to do this. On the other hand if she doesn't flirt back then leave her alone for awhile.
2007-01-23 17:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by livvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you would, no one like being rejected. So getting angryt at her makes it easier. Rather ask he if you said something that upset her or maybe someone gossiped about you. She seems to want to talk to you even if it is unpleasant now.
Give her the chance to clear her chest and then do the same. What could you loose?
2007-01-23 17:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her because personally I can't stand to bare guilt or
tension,especially with somebody that I see everyday. Believe me,
this has happened to me before. I also suggest that you let her
talk to you first,listen to her, than tell her politely if you can speak on
behalf of this situation. Thats it, I guarantee you,this will work if you follow everything,ok
2007-01-23 17:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by christopher G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she's mad at you...O.o There has to be SOME reason- see if you can work it out. If it just doesn't happen, then ignoring her would probably be best.
2007-01-23 17:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by dragon6xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should always try to talk it out first. Never jump to any conclusions. Try talking to her, and if that doesn't work, then tell her to leave you alone.
2007-01-23 17:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lawrence H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she really likes you and is affraid to tell you so don't give up maybe you should talk to her i know guys usually don't do that but you might wanto gove it a try
2007-01-23 17:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by Kenzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋