I really like someone. We have never talked face-to-face in person for a long conversation, but I see him everywhere, we bump into each other, and all of my friends are close friends with him. I REALLY like him, but he is really popular, and I don't know what to do to impress him or let him know that I like him and would be very interested in dating him. I know you're going to say I am young and immature, but that does not mean I do not need advice. I need help and advice on how to go about this, and how to make him realize this. How to impress him without making a fool of myself, how to get him interested in me, and please no imappropriate answers. I don't know where to start, or how to. Please help anyone I am open to almost anything!
2007-01-23 07:36:11 · 11 answers · asked by Shayla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alrighty i will try my best since you want this to work.. First you will have to be his friend, get know him, have him know you too. Keep that way often until either of you guys ask for contact for chat more later. Once you feel comfort with him, why don't you tell him the truth that you like him and hope that it will be same from him. If it does, great, let have him ask you out, etc. Be friend with him first. If you bump him again, stop him and start to tell him what is your name, etc.
2007-01-23 07:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, I'm young and I'm going through the same thing, only I'm a guy. The first time I met her, she was, and is, like the greatest of 8th grade. And she is the friendliest of 8th grade. I talked to her a lot then on, until 2nd semester, now i don't see her as much, and I don't talk to her as much.
Here are things you must know:
*He will of coarse have friends, and some may be girls.
*If you don't chat with him, then chat with him
As you may know every guy you'll like will have friends that are girls. If your friends are friends with him, then you have to chat with him, otherwise you'll get nowhere. Start small, like "Hi" or "hey" or an introductory conversation. Also get deep inside him, like begin a friendship and talk a lot (even if you don't see him, talk when you DO see him). Then if the friendship works, it'll get better for you. If the friendship is STRONG, then start start "hinting" him that you'll like him, or maybe ask him if he wants to go out with you.
Also observe the character he is. If he's over-dramatic about life, it may be ok. If he's kinda boring with you, which may be not, then just stay friends, if he's the average guy, then you'll be fine.
And yes, be yourself.
If it works or if you got comments, credit my brother and I:
tonygar3@yahoo.com
Hope this helps...
2007-01-23 08:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it always have to seem so complicated, just start with a simple hello and mention how you two seem to bump into each other. Just be yourself and maybe suggest going to a school dance or even just sharing a soda at the fast food joint.
There are so many simple ways to introduce yourself and get an opportunity to talk that you just need to be yourself and not plan it like it was a presidential acceptance speech.
Good Luck to you and God Bless.
2007-01-23 07:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very best way to impress your date would be to ask him questions about himself. And ask questions that require him to give a detailed answer, not Yes or No.
For example, don't ask, "do you like movies" because the answer is either yes or no. Ask "what's your favorite scene from your favorite movie".
People are impressed when others are interested in them.
2007-01-23 07:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by scourgeoftheleft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely be yourself and act natural. Most guys, especially the ones worth dating, are looking for a geniune, kind person who doesn't cake on layer after layer of make-up. As for impressing him, smile a lot and try to make him laugh. Also, eye contact is key!
2007-01-23 07:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by Summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by being yourself. You sound as though he is God's gift to women. Tell someone to tell him you are interested in him and see if he responds.
If and when he responds play hard to get otherwise you look desperate and he will take advantage of you.
If he doesn't respond, he is the wrong person for you.
2007-01-23 07:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by L&C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is that if you try to impress him you could just possibly scew things up. Be yourself, act natural and things will go well. The best way to impress someone is to be yourself
2007-01-23 07:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't go out of ur way to impress any guy.. just be yourself and talk to him, and if he likes u then things will happen naturally. don't try and be someting your not, then if you do get into a relationahip, it will be based on a lie since u were trying to impress him.
2007-01-23 07:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by sugar69c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard until you do something, unless you do something really weird it will work, I'd take advantage of your youth and be quite clear, but act a much grown up as you can, without being serious, smile and ask him about something and keep smiling
2007-01-23 07:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋