Here's the deal. I started hooking up with this girl I met at work and we were pretty hotand heavy for a little over a month. Long story short - I called her too much wanting to know where she was one night and I think it freaked her out. She told me she still wanted to hang out with me but was not looking for an exclusive relationship. I get it that I need to give her some space, but seeing her at work everyday kind of makes that hard. How do I rekinder the interest?
2007-01-23 07:34:40 · 11 answers · asked by Confused78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to add that there are only 5 people who work at this business.
2007-01-23 08:08:40 · update #1
oh god, i am reading the advice some of these people are giving you and cracking up. what you need to do is ignore her as much as possible. i mean say hello to her when you see her, but treat her like every other female coworker. when she's ready, she'll talk to you. that's the only way she'll want you.
2007-01-23 07:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by starnami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be so CLINGY! If you see her everyday, you have to find SOME way to make her miss attention from you. Play 'professional' one time at work...no flirting. See if she notices, she may even enjoy it. Make sure when she does look to do something with you that you're not available...u have plans with someone else (whether or not you really do) because she doesnt want to be 'exclusive'. Make sure she understands that you really do want to see her, but will have to make some time for her. You could even ask her then when the next time available would be....
Good Luck
2007-01-23 07:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by Soldier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be. Maybe the times the two of you spent together meant more to you than to her. She obviously wants to have her cake and eat it too and it is certaintly not fair to you. I think you should just move on and stop messing with her because she might just want to be in it for the physical part of it and not for exclusive part of it which seems you want. As far as work, avoid her or just keep it civil and keep the converations short and about WORK. If it gets too out of hand for you, get another job! Good luck!
2007-01-23 07:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just be pleasant to her and go on as if the relationship never happened. In my opinion I think she was using you to get attention from someone else and now she has it. Only time will tell if there was anything special between you two. Keep your chin up and go on with your normal everyday life. Although I would make sure to stay one step ahead of her and don't get caught up in the moment.
2007-01-23 07:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lola420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 02:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull back a little..give her some space....call in about a week and see if she wants to go out
2007-01-23 07:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some space and dont chase her like that..play a little hard to get, no one likes whipped guys.
2007-01-23 11:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by VCP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jsut hang out with her and promise her if u two were back together u won't call as much as u did last time.
2007-01-23 07:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u need to give her some space...i've witnessed break ups of my frnds becoz their bfs kept callin them askin where they are...with whom..etc.etc.
also..either ur feelin insecure that u might lose her\somebody else will take her away...or u've forgotten that u too are a social animal..GO OUT...SOCIALIZE with ur frnds!..get a life..!
2007-01-23 08:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by close_in_destroy_everything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you see her at work doesent mean you have to be with her at work. if she doesent want an exclusive relastionship then dont give her one. trust her.
2007-01-23 07:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋