I told him that I was sorry but I couldnt be with him.Then I found out I was pregnant and then he asked me to marry him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-23 07:32:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Consider the best interests of yourself and the baby you are carrying. Is this someone who would take responsibility and be a good husband and father? It sounds like you didn't really have much of a relationship before you got pregnant. But now it's about another life coming into the world, and you have to make sure you put some serious thought into this decision. Have you talked to your best friend about it yet?
2007-01-23 07:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet n Sour 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you can't go back and correct your mistake, all you can do now is sort out your feelings and your options.
You really need to sit back and evaluate your feelings for this guy. Do you care for him? Could it develop into love? Is he the kind of man you want to be with? Does he love you? Does he treat you well? Is he honest and dependable? Will he take care of you and your family? Will he make a good husband/father?
A married set of parents is always best for a child, but NOT if you don't think it will work. No child wants a miserable mommy in a loveless marriage. Only you know how you feel about this guy, and only you will know what's best for your baby.
Good luck, girl. I am sure you will make the right choice. :)
2007-01-23 15:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...Fun situation. Well you at least need to be involved with him on some level now because of the baby and what the hell, why not date him? You'd already have an awesome sister in law!
2007-01-23 15:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by love_n_hate84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So do you love him or not.? Is he a good man? Does he have a job? If you have said yes to all three of these questions. What is the problem.
2007-01-23 15:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl... if you want to marry him dont, dont do it cuz your pregnant. I think that if you marry him just cuz ur pregnant it wont work if you dont want anything to do with him...... im so sorry ur in that situation! Good Luck....
2007-01-23 15:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by SW_GURL19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now THAT sounds like a fun wedding!
2007-01-23 15:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what's the problem? He sounds like a nice guy.
2007-01-23 15:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk what to do,,, never happened to me before. i'd say you could maybe give a relationship a try, but don't get married just because you're having a child, that's one of the worst reasons... get married when you are ready.
2007-01-23 15:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by Lozer [[RawrRawrHerbivore]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd marry him, and make it work
2007-01-23 15:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess it's the alter for you.
2007-01-23 15:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋