She says that she goes to work and leaves early and some times on her days off they call her to work and when he goes and gets her she is always late coming out. She has guys calling her on her cell phone and on the internet emailing her and she is for ever lyning. I know all this because she and 17 years old doughter tell me. He is a good man works very hard and is always making sure that she has every thing, but he feels that she is with another man but can't find the proof. How can I help with letting her know that it was me?
2007-01-23 07:15:10 · 9 answers · asked by marie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for thoses that think this is none of my busines your wrong because it's affecting our entire family plus my nies, I just want her to leave him because she is hurting out family. I do believe that it is not fair. And how i know you all asked i've been there when she is talking to the guy and i have cought her in the act but if i tell him she will take my nies away and hurt him even more.
2007-01-23 07:27:05 · update #1
You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. Tell him, and if he doesn't believe you, so be it.
2007-01-23 07:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best to stay out of it all. It is not your job to do his investigator.
it will hurt your relationship with this friend. Once a betroyal will lead to another. If you are jealouse, let it ride. some people don't always take bad news sitting down. There are females/males missing and even murdered after the truth comes out.
2007-01-23 15:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by dinea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's really none of your business. If she is cheating on him he will find out, eventually. If you get involved you'll end-up being the bad guy and have egg on your face.
Besides, how do you know she is cheating on him? How do you know that they don't just simply have an open relationship and he's out with other women too?
You don't. So it's better to keep your mouth shut.
2007-01-23 15:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is in this for you that you would want to be responsible for hurting another person by telling him something like this? Let her get found out another way that doesn't involve you.
2007-01-23 15:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry my dear, but this is absolutly none of your business what so-ever. You have no idea of the facts and circumstances behind all this and if you did it still would be none of your business. Back off and stay out of it.
2007-01-23 15:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a camera. Catcher her in the act. Print photos. Mail to him.
2007-01-23 15:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tough!! Tape her talking about the men she deal with!! Or get her daugther to run her trapp
2007-01-23 15:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by kay-kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him an anonymous note.
2007-01-23 15:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u feel
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2007-01-23 15:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋