ok today at school i barely saw my boyfriend. i hugged him twice. usually at the end of the day he finds me to kiss me goodbye. but today he didn't find me and i looked for him. usually i get hugs between every class period. :( im really scared he is going to break up with me. i love him with all of my heart!
puh-lease help me!!
2007-01-23 07:13:03 · 4 answers · asked by pirate gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he always finds you at the end of the day, but didn't, I would say you have every right to be upset and to worry.
If this behavior continues, I would give him a call and ask him right out what's up. If he has some excuse like he had to run out quickly, then you'll know it and it the worry won't continue to weigh you down.
If it IS a sign that he isn't so sure about the relationship anymore, then you will find out on the phone. Don't let him just blow you off. If he wants to break up, he should tell you right out. Some people (especially in high school) try this strategy where instead of breaking up with someone, they slowly start to blow off or ignore the person and hope that she or he just "gets the idea," That's the cowards' way out and isn't right.
Either way, I think if you ask him you'll feel better. And if you do break up -- keep in mind this:
Boys are like busses -- another one will come around every few minutes. And, if you wait long enough, usually the same one will come back around again. :)
Good luck, girl!
2007-01-23 07:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound too young to be so in love between class periods....get a hobby and a hug from your mom and dad; you'll be happy to live your life single and free for as long as you can---trust me-mistakes..I mean, marriage and kids come too soon
2007-01-23 15:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Virgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to overreact or appear desperate. Guys hate desperate and clingy. Stay your normal happy self and go about like nothing happened and see if it continues. If it last a few days, ask him if something is the matter.
2007-01-23 15:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by KB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's not your prince after all?! LOL
2007-01-23 15:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋