Over the past 3 years I lied to everyone about my boyfriend even my best friends and all of my family thinks he is a ***! I made him look like a looser and cheater so I can date other men and such. But now I love him! He told me that I should write a e-mail to everyone telling them that he is a great guy and that I was lying to them all. But on the other hand if I did that they would think it was him puting me up to it! What should I do?
2007-01-23 07:09:56 · 9 answers · asked by Krista H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why on God's Green Earth would you want to trash someone you're supposed to love for 3 years? Tell the fam what's up, but don't be surprised if they react negatively and think you're wierd.
2007-01-23 07:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, start acting like you love him! Lying about him to your family is not a sign of love, I would never do something like that to my bf... my family knows I love him because I SHOW IT...
2007-01-23 15:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should teel your friends because it's not fair... told them that you're sorry and the reason why you did this... honesty is the best policy...
>sometimes we have to take consequences for our actions... maybe you will lie again it will cause a bigger problem so better tell them now that regret it later...
2007-01-23 15:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have to tell your family to like him now---if they know that you really love him and want to make it work--then family should accept him now for just that simple fact alone....not everyone thinks my husband is the greatest, but because I love him and they love me--they accept that
2007-01-23 15:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by Virgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why you don't focus on the negative. Take a step back and reboud, go with the positive!
2007-01-23 15:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by dudeinnorcal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone, If he turns out to be Mr. Right your family can make a better judgement for themselves.
2007-01-23 15:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by dinea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around.
2007-01-23 15:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish he let you write those e-mails and after you are done he tells you to move on you used his name for you dirty doings.u don't deserve him.
2007-01-23 15:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by prettyg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ~he~ should dump you. He sounds like a decent guy... and you sound like trash.
Sorry.
2007-01-23 15:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋