Not because she is my mom but, my mom is the nicest, sweetest, and most positive person ever. She's not a trouble maker at all and likes to avoid problems at all time. My mom is not the type to get revenge on anyone she always belives in leaving things in god's hands. Last year my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer and she was operated and everything was successful. For the last month she had been suffering from a severe pain in her lower back. On friday she did all the exams and well today she got her results back. And she has cancer again, it has returned. They havent said where but I am assuming in her back since thats where the pain is at. Why is this happening? Why can I find an answers to my questions? I am very upset my mom is such a wonderful person. why does she need to go thru this again? I never hear that someone who is cruel is diagnosed with an terminate illness. But, then those who are here that are wonderful people are the ones who leave soon..why?? =( i am so sad!
2007-01-23 07:03:27 · 5 answers · asked by ME 3 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
BMAC I dont wanna blame anyone but I think its unfair that good people always go first or bad things happen to them. While bad people get away with mostly everything
2007-01-23 07:15:05 · update #1
first off, i wanna say that i'm am deeply sorry about your mom. bad things happen to everyone unfortunately. people who are bad probably are that way b/c so many bad things HAVE happened to them in the past...think about it. things in life aren't fair i know, but try to be strong for your mom and tell her she will be ok. if she stays positive, i'm sure that will help as opposed to her being stressed out. i hope she beats this cancer again. god bless!!
2007-01-23 07:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by Essie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is just the way it goes. It's called life and sometimes it just sucks.
You won't get answers,it is what it is. You can't question it or get angry about, you just have to deal with what you are given.
My mom was a wonderful person as well. She had breast cancer too, survived it only to die a year later from her intestines bursting.
I feel your pain and the only advice I can give you is to just be there for her through this. I hope she is ok.
God Bless.
2007-01-23 07:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by Willow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, one of the hardest things we have to face is that life isn't fair. Cancer doesn't know that you're a good person. It happens for a long list of reasons.
I'm sorry for your Mom and you. It's a terrible thing for her/you to go through not just once, but now twice.
Seek the help of friends, family, church members, councelors. There are good people you can talk to about all this.
2007-01-23 07:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all I am so sorry about your mom. i lost my dad when i was 17 and he was a wonderful father and human being. i am not religious but truly believe that God wants the good ones up there with Him. i realize this doesn't make you feel better but i think you should start finding someone to support you through this. there are wonderful books on the subject written by a lady named Elisabeth Kubler Ross. you can buy them on amazon.com used for a reasonable price. her theories on death and dying and living are comforting. no one can make sense of this for you but talk to your mom and say everything you need to say. my thoughts and prayers will be with you.
2007-01-23 07:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by bella36 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because bad things happen to good people. You are looking for someone to blame because you're upset. There is no one to blame. She isn't being punished. My father died of cancer when I was 5. My mother died of heart disease when I was 28. I wasn't ready for either of them to die, but we have no control. Just be there for your mother. Support her, care for her and just love her. That's all that she needs from you. Don't be angry while she is going through this. That won't help either of you.
2007-01-23 07:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋