I have been seeing my boss for about 8 months now and he is becoming possesive of me, he has been married for 32 years and has teen aged kids. His wife is crazy and he is never gonna divorce her, I try to break up with him and he cries and says he loves me. I love my job but I know I can get another one. Should I just break it off and start over, I may be getting married to my boyfriend in March and he wants me to quit cause he knows about my boss.
2007-01-23 07:02:07 · 16 answers · asked by Tiny little hot one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um...ah...YES!!! Why are you considering marrying your boyfriend if you are seeing your boss on the side?? You so need to get away from that situation. Surely you want better for yourself! Good luck!
2007-01-23 07:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you've been seeing your boss and your boyfriend? Does your boyfriend like a cuckhold? Jesus. What a mess you've gotten yourself into... Yes, you should quit and break ties from a very unhealthy situation. I don't think a man who refuses to divorce his wife but cheats on her anyway has any idea what real love is, and I'm not entirely sure you should agree to get married to this boyfriend until you've actually spent some time just being with him. This is a train wreck waiting to happen.
2007-01-23 15:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by rumezzo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight--you're seeing your married boss on the side, and you've got a fiance? Do yourself a favor and don't cheapen yourself that way anymore. Quit the job and the boss, and see if the Fiance still wants you. Make an honest woman of yourself. You and your potential future husband deserve it.
2007-01-23 15:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit your job. If you love your boyfriend enough to consider marrying him, then you should get yourself out of the situation you are in. Jobs can be hard to come by, so I would just make sure you have another one lined out before you quit this one.
2007-01-23 15:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by NEJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah girl, you should get another job and boyfriend too. i hope you don't really expect your boyfriend to marry you. your boss's wife isn't crazy, you are. i hope you get married to someone that you truly love. because if and when you do, another you will come along and do the same thing to you. what comes around goes around a thousand times, round and round.
2007-01-23 15:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by LENA 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quit especially if you think you can get a job and if you really want it to work with your boyfriend quit and start over
2007-01-23 15:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by denise e 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just try to really look for a job and then quit. you can file for unemployment and maybe your bf can help you until then. but quitting would be better, because theres a lot that can happen if you stay there...
2007-01-23 15:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by Juillet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kuch, get a new job. Your boss seems mental disfunctional.
2007-01-23 15:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by Gimme G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, quit immediately.
2007-01-23 15:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change jobs.
2007-01-23 15:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋