I think that my boyfriend is trying to keep distance from me because he barly talks to me anymore and when I call him, ( he never calls any more either) he hardly talks. And I know that if I tell him that I think that he is trying to avoid me he will tell me he isin't when he might be. Does ny kind reader/helper have any good advice on how to get closer to my boyfriend and advice on how to make me feel better???
2007-01-23 07:00:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just not that into you. Stop calling him and start doing other things.
2007-01-23 07:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you said he denies it when you ask him if he's avoiding you --- but did you really tell him how you're feeling?
One time when you two are hanging out (in person and alone) sit him down and in a gentle way tell him you are feeling really bad. Tell him pretty much what you wrote here, and then that you really don't want to lose your closeness with him and you're really happy that he's your boy (or man, depending on age :)).
I am not saying you should rag on him or complain about it, but sometimes we think a guy understands or knows how we feel, when he really has no clue!
If he doesn't respond, or gets angry or annoyed with you, I think it may be a sign that he's become disinterested. If that's the case, it sucks, but I know you'd rather know the truth than stay with someone who no longer wants to be with you.
Good luck, girl!
2007-01-23 15:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry--I don't have any advice as to how to get closer. It takes two willing participants to make a relationship. He's not calling you, he keeps the conversations short when you call him, and is avoiding you. He's taking the 'coward's way out' of this relationship. You must look after your own best interest at this point and hang on to your dignity. Stop contacting him, make plans of your own, and get on with your life.
2007-01-23 15:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just over his house and try to talk to him there about how your feeling if that wont work if he has an messager or something tell him thro there or email just keep trying ur best if u really dont want to loose him wish u luck
2007-01-23 15:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by miss_murder0308 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you did not tell him about the gay encounter between you and your friends! Not everyone can understand. Maybe he found out that you got pregnant
2007-01-25 00:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by adiahudo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him his space and wait for the right time and place to confront him,also something else maybe going on with him. just wait it out you don't want to push him away.
2007-01-23 15:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by happy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋