Okay it's like this: I've been in quite a few bad relationships before, but we've had alot of passion. I.e. the sexual lust was there, everything else on the other hand, was hell. (One almost ruined my life, drove me into a depression so bad that I almost got kicked out of college due to absence.. Yeah, it was that bad. o.O)
And now.. Now I'm the luckiest man alive! I've finally found a girl who treats me right and who, in my oppinion, has shown me what true love is. Only problem is.. It's like the lust isn't there.. Well.. It is, but we don't act on it. By gods I try, but it's like she's just not interested. Despite the fact she says she's physically attracted to me. (And by all means, I am to her too!)
So yeah, it's not like I'm gonna pressure her or force her in any way to take that next step, never! She doesn't even know I have these frustrations..
Iunno, guess my question is this:
Why the heck is the psycho bitches horny as hell? And the girl who actually has a heart arent?
2007-01-23 06:51:34 · 9 answers · asked by Chris W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you arent the only one with this type of problem. girls have to indure this too!! trust me, im going thru a similar situation with my boyfriend. hes the sweetest guy & im so in love but like you he does not pursue sex as a man should...my advice to you is wait be patient, if its love it will work out for you both!....
2007-01-31 05:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by p@nKiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "psycho" bitches as you call them, and the "girl who has a heart" are not really that different, she is probably horny as hell too, but she wants to make sure that after the sex is over with that everything else falls into place. While the "psycho" ***** is just looking to get her freak on, which is what most men have been doing for years. I think that patience is a virtrue and I bet she will be well worth the wait and I bet that you will even find that she is just as wild, horny and crazy as the psycho ***** in the bedroom, just be patient.....
2007-01-31 04:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Sexcchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of prostitutes feel the same way. If you want to constantly be demanding sex for someone to prove their love to you is a huge psychological problem. I think you need some counseling before you ruin your relationship. Sex doesn't have anything to do with love. Guys pay for sex, girls give away sex, there are friends with benefits which is sex without love. When a boyfriend has sex then immediately gets up and goes to watch TV with no nice words, no cuddling, no hand holding, no basking in an after glow, or walks down the street and never touches the gal, that's when they feel unloved. There is making love and there is sex. Sometimes couples just have sex and sometimes they make love. Do you even know what you have when you have it? You need counseling.
2016-03-28 23:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a matter of self-control. The girls with heart have the same temptations as the psycho bitches, but they can control it. They don't give into temptation as easily. Think about this: when you're 70-80 years old and the sex part isn't as important as it is now, you'll want the girl who has heart.
It's possible that she has personal and religious convictions against pre-marital sex, etc. Ask her about it.
2007-01-23 06:57:52 · answer #4 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, as you could see if you looked closely at your past relationships, lust does not always lead to a long, prosperous, and happy relationship. the girl who actually has a heart actually has what the horny ones don't : integrity, priorities, ethnic and religious values, self control and a clean sense of state. yes, she does. the horny women lose at least a majority of those things their first time. women with heart, on the other hand, want that to continue. you gotta see it from the girl with heart's view.
2007-01-30 17:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by music_lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what?
I'll bet she REALLY does desire you, but respects you & herself too much to ruin what you have. Not EVERY girl expects a guy to be just a SEX object.
Can you talk with her? Maybe she believes in saving herself for marriage. and if that's the case. What a lucky guy you are. If you stay together and get married,You will NEVER have to deal with her comparing you to other guys.
2007-01-23 08:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by themamabehr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is because she use to be a horny psycho ********* that has now come into her own, we have to start somewhere. That is not important to her anymore. You need to sit down and talk to her or just be patient and wait it out. She will come around. Good luck.
2007-01-23 06:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think maybe she is just trying to make sure you aren't after ONLY that??!! Sex isn't everything! When will you guys learn this?! A woman likes to know she is important and that sex is second....
2007-01-31 06:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 19, i'm kind of going through the same dilemma with my girlfriend... of 1.5 years. Do you want to talk about it.
My AIM screenname is itsviktor343
2007-01-23 06:58:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋