How should I make him stop without making him angry with me?
2007-01-23 06:45:20 · 34 answers · asked by Indian Tigress 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"How should I make him stop..." -- You can't.
He may be really cute but that is NO reason to stay with someone. There are countless cute guys in the world.
Unless you are going to be happy in a relationship where he continues to cheat -- and he will, no doubt about that -- you should end the relationship. I'm sorry to say, it really is just that simple.
2007-01-23 06:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by ljb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him stop doing anything. Keeping a guy just because he is cute is probably stupid of you. Once a cheater always a cheater and well at your age trust me he isn't going to stop just because you tell him too. Either you like that he cheats on you or you are plain stupid. I'm not trying to be mean but just being with him lets him know that he can pretty much cheat all he wants because you dont seem to care. Just lose the idiot your better of without him and find someone else.
2007-01-23 06:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by cHiKiBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's only a boyfriend? dump him like a hot potato. go find another cute one. if he becomes angry - too bad, so sad for him. learn this now: you must take care of yourself, for yourself first and foremost. if he gets angry - that's his problem, and don't make it yours nor allow him to make it yours. get rid of him now before you have spent a lot of time and energy on this jerk.
look instead for the soul in a person. his integrity, his characters strengths, his values. and don't settle for anything or anyone less than you deserve. because you deserve the best.
good luck. living aint easy, but it can be better without the heartache of a bad relationship when 1/2 of that relationship is a bum.
2007-01-23 06:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..are you effing stupid??! xo.. you cant make him stop if he thinks he can walk all over you like that! take a stand and tell him to frigging stop, why should you worry about him bieng mad at you if your not doing anything wrong?
If he gets mad at you for telling him to stop cheating on you, then he obviously doesnt like you. Dont waste your time with him, becuase other people will notice his cheating and whatever reputation you have is going to be shattered. So while your fussing over how CUTE he is, just think how many OTHER girls think the same thing!.
He's just going to ruin you... you really ought to leave him.. or.. cheat back. Tell him if he can do it, why cant you?.
2007-01-23 06:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by kinky toes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheating on you, it shouldn't matter how cute he is. as long as you let him do it, he will keep doing it. What's better for a guy then to have a girl at home and still be able to sleep around!? he's got it made, he's not gonna quite. Plus him doing that to you means he doesnt' respect you or love you. He's just using you! Cut your loses and move on and find another cute guy! there are plenty out there!!! Good luck! you deserve better!
2007-01-23 06:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by nalerij 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is that guy advice? Or did you mean you elect advice from adult males? if so should not be right here...yet formerly i pass i'm going to declare, you may let us know you're a length 10 with ideal boobs yet you will have the face of a pig canine and scent like an armpit for all all of us comprehend. So - i can not elect, i'm going to choose for 6 - not one of the above.
2016-11-01 02:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by atalanta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cute or not, staying with him means accepting his cheating. Get over the cute thing and get out of the relationship. You are only hurting yourself.
2007-01-23 06:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by Hogman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he was that into you, he wouldn't be cheating on you. He doesn't love you anymore. I'm sorry dear. Dump him and move on. There are cuter and better fish out there in the sea that will love you and treat you well.
2007-01-23 06:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Cuteness is nice, but not very important in the long haul. Many other factors are more important.
2007-01-23 06:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not that cute to treat you that way. Have some self respect and dump his cheating butt.
2007-01-23 06:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by Bruce W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋