And no Im not going to drug her.
2007-01-23 06:17:43 · 28 answers · asked by Cool_Guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude just run for the hills!
You are in what is known as the classic lose lose
situation. no matter what you do your ass is hers.
you poor bastard.
2007-01-23 06:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by mark_grvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's ALREADY drugged....LOL. J/K
Seriously, I feel for you on this one. All you can do is tell her that you love her and don't like to make her angry. Ask her what are some ways you can avoid making her feel this way in the future. Tell her that it's important to you (and mean it) that you don't make her mad, but you need her help to know what not to do. She may just be trying to search for a reason to be mad to break up with you. Apologize to her for not understanding what you did, but tell her that you want to know her better so this doesnt happen any more. Let her know how important she is to you, and that you hope she'll have the patience to work this out...
Good Luck
2007-01-23 14:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by Soldier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy! Do I have experience with THIS one! I have tried everything; from talking to her through a slammed and locked door, to sitting in a chair beside her while she slept on the couch.
I have been woken from a sound sleep only to be informed that she was pissed at me, but still ...no explanation.
The best solution for this problem is to wait her out. After she calms down, she will tell you what you did that upset her. Trying to guess what you did will only make her madder.
But my Best advice is: GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN
My hotheaded wife finally kicked me out after 13 years of marriage. Leaving me a divorced Dad of two wonderful kids I almost NEVER get to see. And guess what? She hates me more than ever!
I repeat: GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN
2007-01-23 14:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by Picasso 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
#1 FIND OUT WHAT"S WRONG
Normally I would always say to go to the source and get it straight from her what she thinks you did wrong....BUT this could backfire if she gets even more mad because you don't even know what you did.
Safest bet is to ask her close friend what's up.
#2 DECIDE IF ITS LEGIT
Does she have a good reason? Apologise.
Does she have a bad reason? Apologise (Just kidding :-)) Try to be reasonable and defend yourself.
If the goal is to calm her down, be careful she doesn't suck you into a fight in the the process.
When she calms down...tell her that she needs to talk to you about what she's mad about BEFORE she starts to punish you for it.
I know...girls are really unreasonable at times...I admit it!
2007-01-23 14:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may want to give her a few days. Then very politely let her know that you have no idea what you did to piss her off. See if you can get any kind of hints from what she says.. You may have to say that you are sorry -- even if you are still unsure of what you may have done. You never know maybe it wasn't you that she is exactly pissed with. TRY TALKING TO HER!!!
2007-01-23 14:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by dreamer357d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone, just wait for her to talk to you. That way you arent gonna make her mad and when she does find you, she'll be in a mood to talk. Also if she gets to crazy again, walk out of the room and come back when she's calmed down. Alternatively write her a letter an just wait it out.
2007-01-23 14:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be pissed but she can go be pissed somewhere else.If she is not willing to say why,,I wouldnt give a ratz azz.Maybe she is pissed at you because its her that is doing something wrong.Sometimes people do that.They will put the blame on the other person to get attention off of themselves.
2007-01-23 14:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this might seem an odd idea to a lot of people but it is NOT your responsibility to calm her down.... it is her responsiblitiy soooo go and play a game of golf... let it go like water off a ducks back and when she bothers to manage her own behaviour long enough to talk to you...... tell her that from now on if she carries on you play golf and that is how it will conintue....
well you dont have to play golf... you could go and mow the lawn... or go to work... or any other thing you want or need to do..
2007-01-23 17:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her. If you didn't do anything wrong then she needs to stop acting pissed off otherwise you'll dump her. If she realizes you mean business she'll either tell you why she's mad or she'll quit the BS.
2007-01-23 14:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet she's the type of girl that loves it when you are begging her forgiveness. Some women feed off of the reaction and attention they get when a man is trying to get back on her good side.
My advice? Back off, stop asking her why she's angry and stop calling. Watch how quickly her attitude changes.
2007-01-23 14:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women will be pissed at you no matter what you do. I once had a gf who was pissed at me for something I did in a dream she had.
2007-01-23 14:22:24 · answer #11 · answered by By Your Command 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋