Is this freaky or dangerous?

Question

I'm getting freaked out a little. My girlfriend is making weird sex requests.

We've been together for while now. We're still learning, but this came out of left field.

She started getting rougher in bed. She began lightly slapping me.

But last night she bit my leg and jammed her thumb up my a**. Then she slapped me hard in the face.

I flipped out and punched her in the mouth. Her lip started bleeding and she got this excited look in her face. And she came really hard.

Afterwards, when I got some ice for her lip, she said that was the best she's ever gotten.

She said we should get even crazier next time.

I'm scared. I'm catholic and never did this before.

Is this freaky or dangerous?

She also mentioned about bringing a cat into the mix.

What's going on?

Answer 1

LOL

Funny thing is I once knew a girl who like to be slapped while we were doing it. I had to leave as slapping women around is not my thing

Answer 2

The cat is a big problem from my point of view. Sounds like your girlfriend is into D/s. This type of "relationship" needs to be discussed first because yes, it can become very dangerous. Most people who are into this do have a safe word with their partners but it's a give and take situation...not something that is just sprung on the other person out of the blue. Talk to her about this. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, not scare the wits out of you (unless you're into that but, that's another story!)

Answer 3

Aside from the cat, I think youre lucky! Although including violence is a bit hard to handle, its always good to bring new ideas to the bedroom ;). If this is too weird for you, why dont you come up with some new suggestions to stray her off of this path?

Answer 4

Its both Freaky and can get dangerous........depends on you are you willing to do these sex tatics or set some boudaries? its your call too.......maybe just tone it down a bit and leave the poor cat out! all animals...........please Go take her to some sex store pick out some toys and get some idea's and just talk with her....it could be even worse flat ole boreing sex or none at all....so set her down tell her how u feel...and see what the two of you can work out...............have fun and be wise.

Answer 5

WTF???Your girl has passed the point of freaky ok,she is way out there.But if you like it then you should probably stay with her and yall keep it up but if your not diggin the way things are goin then you should probably go out and find sum1 else,some1 you can have fun with and not have to worry about being killed everytime yall have sex together.

Answer 6

Freaky or dangerous? Yes, both. You done gone and hooked yourself a sadist. If you're not into pain, move on. I just don't want to think about what she's gonna do with the cat.

Answer 7

What does being Catholic have to do with any of this? If you were really into your religion you wouldn't be having sex before marriage anyway so don't mention it again. As to your
relationship; what are you afraid of? You seem to be able to defend yourself. Kick her a s s next time, then maybe she'll learn. Or maybe not, she might like it!

Answer 8

That is freaky, weird, dangerous. and bringing a cat into the mix is a sickness. who would want to have sexual relations with a cat. thats not sane.

Answer 9

Buddy i don't want to insult you and your girl friend but this is freaky not dangerous.
The cat thing can be a little dangerous because it can scartch both of you.

Answer 10

Catholic...hmm. Tricky. Is the cat circumsised?

Wait, that's Jusdaism.