i was on holiday with a group of friends. i had a crush on one fo the girls which is part of the reason i invited her along. eevrything was going great and we all decided to go camping. everybody paired up in two's or three's and i asked her if she wanted to share a tent with me and she said yes. so we were just talking in the tent - both laid side by side and she was wearing these proper tight shorts and i just suddenly got a massive rock-hard erection. so i turned on my side - back against her so that she wouldnt see. so we were still talking and she asked me a question and she couldn't hear me properly i guess because teh next thing i know shes on my shoulders looking at my face asking me why im facing the other direction and as she was doing this her hand kind of brushed past my leg and she kind of accidently touched my rock-hard penis and she suddenly shot back to the other side. we didnt see eye to eye after that for the whole trip. so what should i do because i really like her?
2007-01-23 06:05:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Invite her somewhere private and have a conversation with her about it. But if she is the kind of girl that is intimidated by an involuntary erection, then is she really the kind of girl you want to see anyway?
2007-01-23 06:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Denise H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some girls do take their own time to open up. That she agreed to share the tent with you and also lie by yor side in scanty clothes shows that she is not averse. But her unexpected violent reaction is perhaps due to the fact that she desires to be slowly open up. Not just going to the last step. You perhaps did the right thing in turning over or had you given in to yourself the reaction might have been more violent even phyically. Try to go to her and apologise for the indiscretion and if you really love her try to go alog with her. Best of luck.
2007-01-23 06:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact she shared your tent and put on some hot pants (which can only be a come on or tease) tells you all you need to know. Girls like confident guys so do a very quick ''sorry bout the night in the tent but you looked really hot in those shorts, will you wear them on our date friday?
2007-01-23 06:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol She obviously isn't easy. I would have been horny. I was horny just reading it. lol
However, I think you need to cool off a bit. That's obviously too much for her. She may have just thought of you as a friend and not in that way. Anyway. She obviously isn't into it. So I would stand back and if she talks to you again then I'd just be friendly. Let her make the moves from now on. lol Otherwise you may go too fast and you'll never be near her again.
2007-01-23 06:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the polite thing by turning away, considering the circumstances.
Tell her you apologize for startling her, and you were doing your best to conceal your "admiration" for her. Let her know that you would NEVER try to coerce to do anything she wasn't comfortable with. Tell her that you really care about her, as a friend and a person, and (as long as you're on the subject, might as well be brave) would really like to date her and get to know her better.
(and by the way, NEVER blame a woman for being too gorgeous... that sort of logic leads to date rape... even if she's a supermodel that's no reason you can't try to act with a little respect and self-control!)
2007-01-23 06:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just apoligize to her. Let her know that you really like her and respect her and your sorry for what happened and you weren't planning on hittnig on her and that's why you turned you back, but that she looked so beautiful laying there and you just got a little excited. See what happens. Telling a girl how beautiful she is usually works if you do it in a really nice way. Good luck!
2007-01-23 06:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by nalerij 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow u shoul of told her bfore in the tent that you liked her then it wouldnt of been that ocward, just go tell her sorry but u really do like her and that was an accident and u cant control it
2007-01-23 06:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by CANDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty hard...
like...
it's embarassing for a girl too b.c i have had that happene to me..
it makes everyting awkard...
well first off..
does she like you?
because if she does than you should just be like
yea... so what you turn me on and i didnt want you to see my massive erection..
if she flips out then im sorry
all i have to say is that i
would be pretty flattered..
no lie!!
2007-01-23 06:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by SoDaMNHaRDtOFaLLinLOVE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just talk to her, maybe have a laugh about the whole thing, and tell her you would love to start again and does she want to go out sometime.
2007-01-23 06:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just tell her the truth you were so turned on by her beauty that you got aroused she will be flattered by this and instead of jumping off ya will be all over you good luck.
2007-01-23 06:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋