My male friend say's he has no girlfriend I see him every week . Lately he says that he has been busy. last night another female texted him they said they missed each other they also said that they love each other she even knows about me but I dont know about her. What should I do?
2007-01-23 06:00:37 · 11 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should do what you want to do. Some women want a man that is only going to be with them. Other's don't really care as long as they have thier man when they want hiim, they could care less if he's with another woman.
I recommend you do some soal searching on your own, and realize what you want. What's best for you is the only thing you need to do. This man... he's just a player and in his life right now, that's all the relationship he wants. One with his self. He's simply looking for relations.... not relationship.
If you are looking for a committed relationship, you need to be looking elsewhere. There are some guys like us out there, who have passed that stage in thier life and are looking for a good woman to really get to know.
You'll find him, but you have to be looking in the strangest places. Like a grocery store, Block Buster, standing in line at McDonalds. You're not going to find him at a club. Although I go to the club often, I usually leave by myself.
2007-01-23 06:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you are friends. Did you expect more than friendship? Is he a fwb? Have you fell in love with him or is it threatening to you for him to have another female friend? You can have opposite sex friends and have different types of relationships with them. I think you two need to talk. At least you will have an idea of where you stand. Good luck to you. I know is confusing and difficult. Am sure it will work out for the best for you.
2007-01-23 14:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said "male friend" Is this not your boyfriend then? If not then you might want to draw the line with him on where you two stand, and tell him how you feel. :)
2007-01-23 14:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by dudeinnorcal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want this man to be committed to you then you need to tell him. the fact that he has relationships with other women and does not acknowledge you seems to be a problem for you; so you should speak up. it's the squeaky wheel that gets the oil.
2007-01-23 14:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by iPROMISE[♥] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately ask him where you stand, are you dating? because you are just calling him your male friend. And let him know what you saw too.
2007-01-23 15:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by Jay's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it you want to say? You're just friends, not his wife. If he has other females friends, that's his business, not your concern.
2007-01-23 14:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang your reading his texts?
dont get to attached, if your sure she knows about you but dont know about her than she's a step on top of you(sorry)
don't get used or any thing and if you want keep it a friendship.
2007-01-23 14:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by Lost Drifter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him where you stand with him.
2007-01-23 14:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by Terrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously cheating....dump him!
2007-01-23 14:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.
2007-01-23 14:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋