so my bf is talking to his ex. of a year and a 1/2..
she calls him everynight and stuff..
it really bugs me.. and i dont want to tell him to just stop...
it's really hard to do.. and it's causing A LOT of drama in our relationship. like i love him and he loves me..
but im just really worried that she's gonna do something...
what should i do?!?
2007-01-23 05:57:47 · 7 answers · asked by SoDaMNHaRDtOFaLLinLOVE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh!! i also ask him to not talk to her... but he gets mad and says that nothings going on.. and he says thati am the one who is causeing all of the drama that nothingis going on... but at the same time i have a huge thought in the back of my mind sayng that something just mught really begoing on
2007-01-23 06:06:57 · update #1
You need to put your foot down and let him know how you feel. Forget whether he tells you it's hard or not. You should be the only girl he's talking to. If he refuses to quit talking to her, then you need to make some decisions about what you're going to do. It's just disrespectful, especially if you don't talk to other boys. Stand up for yourself.
2007-01-23 06:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you need to do is talk with your boyfriend about how you feel. Tell him that this is really bothering you and it is affecting your relationship with him. Tell him how he would feel if your ex boyfriend called you every night? If he does not take the time to listen to you and address your concerns, then it might be time for you to really look at your relationship with your boyfriend.
"Good Luck"
2007-01-23 06:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried she is gonna do something? You mean like steal your BF away from you. You do realize that he is willingly talking to her. You do realize that he has to consent to anything she does to him. He is not an innocent victim here. Tell him to stop or you'll leave him. It really is that simple.
2007-01-23 06:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely tell him how you feel. tell him that you dont want to completely make him stop talking to his ex, but tell him that you dont like it. communication is the key in a relationship. you have to be able to tell each other how you feel.
2007-01-23 06:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by sasha_miller_2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is a hard situation there.. may be would be best if you talk to him and leave everythign clear, in the same page both of u
2007-01-23 06:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he takes calls from her you need to tell him to go
cause he is prob banging her behind your back and then letting you enjoy the aftermath if you kno what i mean
2007-01-23 06:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by wendy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell that girl somethiong
2007-01-23 06:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by *emokisses<3* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋