my current bf has not had a gf in 4 years because his ex cheated on him and he dumped her then she ran him over with a car... yea a ***** i know. anyways for some reason he decided to take a chance with me. he's had the fear of relationship failure and hurt for 4 years then suddenly isn't afraid anymore. am i thinking about it too much because i know what he's been through and i don't want to ***** up our relationship by any means and it's fine so far. i guess my question is am pressuring myself too much to be perfect for him? i know he loves me and he's far more attached to me than he thought he would be as am i for him. it's a great relationship and we've both had horrid past ones. should i just stop stressing and enjoy the good times coming and realize that everything happens for a reason? i dunno kinda confusing i guess i can't word it right.
2007-01-23 05:54:17 · 6 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes stop stressing you two have found something in each other stop worrying. Just live and enjoy each other. He has put the past behind him by trusting you in this relationship so you need to leave the crazy ex behind too.
whats to come is already better than whats been, I do mean BETTER
2007-01-23 06:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by the gr8one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow 4 whole years, is that all? I've been through the same thing for the last 13 years. If he's let you into his life it means you're doing something right. Don't worry about it and don't even think you're going to mess it up. Be extremely happy that you've gotten that place in his heart.
Don't worry about it any more and for heaven sakes, be happy.
2007-01-23 14:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're putting a little more than you need. I do believe that you should stop stressing and be yourself. He liked you before the relationship started, and he would like you to be yourself. Don't worry so much
2007-01-23 13:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkle Fairy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn your pressure in to praise...You should not be under pressure you should be excited that he saw something in you that made him want to let go of the hurt and the pain. You will never be perfect just be all you can be. This could be the one for you. Pray and whatever you do keep God first. I wish you well...
2007-01-23 14:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by luckycharm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and don't worry about what might happen in the future. If this relationship works out then great. If it doesn't, at least you know you tried.
2007-01-23 14:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop putting pressure on yourselves. Let things happen, don't think too much about it all - and enjoy each other's company.
2007-01-23 13:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋