If me and my boyfriend ever broke up and I wanted to start dating...would it be hard to find someone? I'm 21 now and I have a 3 month old baby. But if something were to happen to me and my boyfriend, like it almost has so many times, do you think it would be hard for me to find a good guy that would treat me and my daughter good, without thinking that I'm looking for his money or thinking that I'm just looking for another daddy for my daughter?
2007-01-23 05:51:33 · 8 answers · asked by dreamer620420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I am in a similar situation, and after me and my ex broke up , I met someone who loved ma and my daughter unconditionally, and we have been together 3 1/2 years now, so if it does happen I am sure you'll find a decent man, who will except you and your daughter as a packaged deal!!
2007-01-23 05:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by kay-kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the guy. Some guys love kids and some guys view them as baggage. They also might see your child as something that will keep you from being spontaneous and just being able to get away at a moments notice. Then again there are those guys who want a woman with a kid because they might not be able to have their own children and crave a family. It is a hard situation to be in when you are a single mom. You never know what to expect or how people will turn out.
2007-01-23 06:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by Vasago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you make me wish I was 30 years younger. I had a son but I've always wanted a girl. I love the thought of dressing her in those cute little Easter outfits and going to the dance recitals and all of that kind of thing as well as protecting her and her mother and the thought of getting a little girl without the diapers is a perfect dream of mine.
You shouldn't be too hard pressed to date as long as you have a good baby sitter but be careful, there are a lot of perverts out there that would love to get into this situation.
2007-01-23 07:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it particularly is rather real haha, i'm needing a lady this time because I already have a boy and he's a wild toddler. Boys calm down at the same time as they become older and women commence to get a touch over excited. ladies are not continually lovable, although they have so a lot more suitable of a spread on infant woman clothing. lol
2016-10-16 00:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is that having a child will scare some guys away as they do not want to walk into a situation with children that are not their own. I would say most guys do not have a problem with it though
2007-01-23 05:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would look at you as a normal chick if you had a job and paid for your own baby and not expect me to spend a dime until i want to.
If you had a job and a babysitter so we could get to know each other first that would be all good.
2007-01-23 05:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by remailer000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is more difficult but there are good men out there, I would just be careful about who I expose my child too..that is the most important thing
2007-01-23 05:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good guys are very difficult to find.......with or without a baby.
Concentrate on YOU and your baby. Please dont worry about FINDING anyone.
2007-01-23 05:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋