asked me if i kissed this guy that i met 3months ago and i told him yes, and then he asked me if i had sex with him and i hung up the phone. what should i do, i am feeling bad, and i want to tell him the truth, but again i do not want to tell him the truth. i dont know what he has done himself. but i do trust him a little
2007-01-23 05:41:17 · 7 answers · asked by caramelpop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok if you had sex with this other guy, you should do the right thing and tell your ex. Once you cheat on someone its no longer your decision of what is right and wrong and if you two should get back together. You betrayed the relationship by cheating. You need to let your ex know the truth and then he can decide.
2007-01-23 05:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by CJ B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys hate it when girls are wishy-washy. Tell him the truth. If he's just a friend now he should be able to deal with not hearing the answer he wants. If you do want to get back with him, tell him the TRUTH. Dont kiss his ***. If he cant be mature by now you dont need that in your life. If he was so great anyway...why is he your "ex"?
2007-01-23 05:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by csiders30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that honesty is the best policy and that a relationship is nothing without trust and communication. If you all are meant to be together and truly love each other, you both need to divulge everything you have ever done to each other and start over fresh.
2007-01-23 05:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by Vasago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is an ex for a reason. Remember why and don't tap dance backwards. Don't continue this word game with him. If you're seeing someone now, you are betraying his trust by talking this way with your ex.
2007-01-23 05:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This shows both of you still have a strong feeling for each other and he is still jealous, If you are interested in him tell him otherwise you do not owe him an explaination if it is actually over
2007-01-23 05:54:20 · answer #5 · answered by tonyxj1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im in the same predicament...except he has a new gf but i know he still wants me..i can just tell...yeah well no u dont have to tell him anything..yall aint together...unless you and him were in the process of getting back togther...but if not he might have done something to and just is jealous and wants to be nosey...
2007-01-23 05:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by lyssa a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down and just talk. That is the only way this is going to get resolved.
Hope this helps. :-)
2007-01-23 05:47:19 · answer #7 · answered by .o0O O0o. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋