help, plz?!!?

Question

if you really liked someone and you really wanted to tell them, you know they like you back, but your scared of what of what to say to him, and when you both get on the topic of u and him you get all nervous and stuff, how would you go about that, i dont have a clue on what to say or do!! plz help me!!

thanx guys you all have good answers!!

Answer 1

If even thinking about talking about it makes you want to puke, maybe you just aren't going about it the right way.

Step 1) RELAX! the hard part is kinda already over...you like him & you know he likes you so you're set! The rest is just details.

Step 2) Just hang out... find ways to be around him and talk to him, just regular stuff. The more comfortable you feel around him the easier talking about IT is going to be. Take the pressure off yourself (remember, he's probably feeling the exact same way...if you're nervous then he will be too!)

Step 3) Be yourself...if you are a really direct person then just flat out tell him (when you feel the moment is right.) If you aren't so direct then try to introduce the topic so that he'll bring it up first.

It'll happen...just wait for it! True lust cannot be denied :-)

Answer 2

Here's what you do: You realize that you're a teenager, and it's totally normal to be nervous, and he's as nervous as you are. Then you tell yourself that embarrassment, like high school, cannot last forever, and you bite the bullet and just do it.
Realize it's not the end of the world, no matter what happens. Just talk to him like he's a friend, or your brother/cousin/etc. Find something you have in common, and ask him about it.

Answer 3

Well first thing be yourself. Don't try to be something more than who you are. If you are good friends with him then you are on your way. Sometimes friends do end up together as boyfriend and girlfriend. I would try talking to him about things that he likes to do and share with him things you like to do. Talk about movies,games,music,food etc....

If it was meant to be then it will happen if not then you will have a good friend. "Good Luck"

Answer 4

I would just have to get up enough courage to talk about it. Because if your to shy or embarassed to talk about yourself with a guy then you may not ever be able to see if you can be a couple. One of you is just going to have to step up and do it. Good Luck.

Hope

Answer 5

act like ur'self but if u wanna impress that person talk about something u have in commin with if u just wanna like be more than friends u hafe to do it alone cuz no1 can help u that way :)

Answer 6

I know your scared but build up the confidence and go up and ask him if you do in any other way it would look pretty bad.

Answer 7

you just have to do it, sure it will be weird and awkward and embarrassing, but once its done, its done and then you can move onto the part where everything is comfortable and fun. so dont waste anymore time!!! go stutter your feelings out to that boy!

Answer 8

if he likes u too then just go up to him & ask privately say somthing like "do you wanna go out with me?" or even email him its harder doing it in person!! x good luck x

Answer 9

tell him and if he like freaks he is SO not worth it! DONT BE NERVOUS

Answer 10

just say:

'hey do you like me?'

and if he says no just say 'oh, phew, cause somebody said you did and i like just being friends.'

good luck though =]